"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3 types of men

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You see, there’s three different types of men out there:

1) Ones that are afraid of talking to women

2) Then there’s the ones in between who are the wanna-be’s

3) And finally there are those that aren’t afraid of talking to women


Now, the guys who are afraid of talking to women simply don’t even dare to approach women. They instead lurk in the shadows and watch women from a distance and creep up on them. Eventually they go home and they mentally masturbate what it would be like to be with a woman like her.

The second type of dudes, are the guys who are the wanna-be’s. They act like they are tough in front of everyone, and when it is time to actually get to some action, they stumble and trip over themselves like fools. Most wanna-be's are on online forums studying seduction advice but don't yet have the courage to actually go out and get something accomplished.

Then there are the types of dudes who aren’t afraid of talking to women and will run up in every girl’s face to say something stupid, no matter what it is. Oddly enough, most of these guys actually end up getting laid. Most of them do not really get laid because of their skill or their good charms, but because of the simple numbers game: Eventually a girl will find them attractive enough and be horny enough to want to sleep with them.

Now, the real players also belong in the third type of guys. But the real players study a woman from a distance as well. They investigate and they learn everything they can about her before they move in for the kill. They do this to avoid looking like a punk and sounding stupid. A real player is like a hunter who will study his prey and find out it’s weaknesses and strengths, so it knows which angle of attack to take.

Whatever you do, become the last type of man and avoid being the first two types.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Then there are the types of dudes who aren’t afraid of talking to women and will run up in every girl’s face to say something stupid
How about...

4. Normal Guys....the types of dudes who aren’t afraid of talking to women and will WALK up in every girl’s GENERAL POSITION to say something normal :cheer:
 

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Single_Sucks said:
How about...

4. Normal Guys....the types of dudes who aren’t afraid of talking to women and will WALK up in every girl’s GENERAL POSITION to say something normal :cheer:

^^ +1 guys that simply say HI, how are you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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trd323 said:
^^ +1 guys that simply say HI, how are you?
believe me, those guys are extremely rare. i consider those type 3 but polished and smooth.

most guys in the online 'seduction community' will run up in girls faces saying stupid stuff like 'who lies more, men or women' and other equally ridiculous canned openers.
 

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I like your site, especially the video. It's like you're a G. I'm a G wanna be. Then there are those who don't want to be a G. So I see what's you saying.



Though I think it's over simplified. I think there are 3 categories of men, first are the ones that want to be their own man, then there are the ones who are not sure what to be and where to go, those are the works in progress, and finally there are men who want to be like that player Dave down the block.

The forth type of men, the phantom men, are those rare bread of men, who know wtf they want out of life and do their own thing. They are similar to first category, but unlike the first category, they didn't loose that knowledge through societal evils. They knew it all along, they are the naturals.


I absolutely agree with you Dan. Most men on sosuave are like the 3rd type. Someone else's style, someone else's dreams, someone else's ambitions. Fakes.
 

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wheres the 4th option???? guys like me that arent afraid to talk to women and still dont get laid :)
 

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Metaphysical said:
believe me, those guys are extremely rare. i consider those type 3 but polished and smooth.

most guys in the online 'seduction community' will run up in girls faces saying stupid stuff like 'who lies more, men or women' and other equally ridiculous canned openers.
Nothing wrong with canned opener provided you can make them work... I've found recently that if you try to get them through just saying the line the girl goes "WTF?!" but if you make it a little smoother by saying something like

Hey, you, settle something between me an my friend... now I know this is werid( Bear with me) but who do you think lies more; guys or girls.

Then when she gives you an answer you respond accordingly, openers are just nice ways so your brain doesn't have to always be creative. (Plus, it's always fun to make fun of the girl immediately by taking the opposite of what she said and turning it on her.)

Also a canned opener is proven material, so the PUA can caliburate his own skills because the opener is proven to work, so if it fails it's not the material... it's him.

The bottom line with canned opener that alot of people don't seem to get at the moment is that you have to 'proof' them. Make e'm seem at least somewhat legitimate in the conversation, and that your not just using them like any other cheezie pick up line. Plus, I like the who lies more opener.
 

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I'm confused. Are you Player_Supreme/Metaphysical Lover?

Or the white kid used for advertising purposes. You kind of write like him, but without the 'twang'

Whatever it is, Player Supreme is ****ing brilliant and props to him for getting his system out there!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Horrible.
 

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MaddXMan said:
I'm confused. Are you Player_Supreme/Metaphysical Lover?

Or the white kid used for advertising purposes. You kind of write like him, but without the 'twang'

Whatever it is, Player Supreme is ****ing brilliant and props to him for getting his system out there!
Never heard of him actually, all I know is styles stuff with a little Double your Dating.

But regardless, I noticed you didn't say I was wrong. So I'll take it as a compliment.

@Bona: as soon as you start paying me, and handing me all your HB 10s.
 

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I'd say there are 3 types of people.

1) People who have been hurt.
2) People who are insensitive.
3) People who are sensitive.

But then people are never simple creatures, they may be harmful or harmless, but never simple..........
 

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What About Chic Magnets That Are Naturally Super Hot Looking

What About Gay Men

What About Men Who Are Visiting And Dont Speak The Language

What About Pre-ops Women That Want To Be Men

I Think Theres More Than 3 Types
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Metaphysical said:
Now, the real players also belong in the third type of guys. But the real players study a woman from a distance as well. They investigate and they learn everything they can about her before they move in for the kill. They do this to avoid looking like a punk and sounding stupid. A real player is like a hunter who will study his prey and find out it’s weaknesses and strengths, so it knows which angle of attack to take.

Whatever you do, become the last type of man and avoid being the first two types.
Why not instead of telling people what catagory to be in. Help them get into it!! Because, some guys who post similar to you... Don't give simple steps or tips to be one of those "real players".

Everyone on here wants to be a ladies man. But, telling them to be one doesn't help. Only teaching them does. Then, it is up to them to actually use their logic.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Why not instead of telling people what catagory to be in. Help them get into it!! Because, some guys who post similar to you... Don't give simple steps or tips to be one of those "real players".

Everyone on here wants to be a ladies man. But, telling them to be one doesn't help. Only teaching them does. Then, it is up to them to actually use their logic.

lol. you don't even see the anwser to your own question staring you in the face. pay attention, obvserve everything and you will see more than you thought. peek thru the looking glass and see how far down the rabbit hole goes.
 

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Miguel said:
Never heard of him actually, all I know is styles stuff with a little Double your Dating.

But regardless, I noticed you didn't say I was wrong. So I'll take it as a compliment.

@Bona: as soon as you start paying me, and handing me all your HB 10s.
No my comment was directed towards Metaphysical. If you go to the link for the ebook, it says "Metaphysical Lover presents..."

Metaphysical Lover is Player Supreme. Look up the Player Supreme shows on youtube.

He used to post here. I thought that his stuff was great and was surprised that he was just giving that knowledge away.

Edit - I'm done playing internet sleuth, that's lame. Just amusing that some would be afraid of the real face and need something that makes them feel safe.
 
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Bonafide said:
Give us your ebook for free


Hear ye! Hear ye! Become your own man! Be like Dave! Now on sale! Hear ye! Hear ye! Become your own man! Be like Dave! Now on sale!

Excuse me mate. Me and my friend 'desire' to become our selves, you know, be the man we always wanted. You know, follow our own dreams, our own desires, make our own destiny. You know, be like Dave. Could you give us that book for free?

No, yer, if you wish to desire to be like Dave, you must pay.



Hear ye! Hear ye! Become your own man! Be like yourself!

Excuse me mate! Me and my friend 'desire' to become our selves, you know, be the man we always wanted. You know, follow our own dreams, our own desires, make our own destiny. You know, be our selves. Could you give us that book for free?

No, yer, if you wish to desire to learn to be yourself, you must pay.

Pffts... We could go down the road and buy a book about how to be like Dave. Yea, unlike us, Dave is popular. Yea chicks dig Dave!





Seriously brother! Guy spend a lot of time making the material. Material which is 'GOLD'. Give him a break. He's not asking much.
 

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MaddXMan said:
No my comment was directed towards Metaphysical. If you go to the link for the ebook, it says "Metaphysical Lover presents..."

Metaphysical Lover is Player Supreme. Look up the Player Supreme shows on youtube.

He used to post here. I thought that his stuff was great and was surprised that he was just giving that knowledge away.

Edit - I'm done playing internet sleuth, that's lame. Just amusing that some would be afraid of the real face and need something that makes them feel safe.
Huh? What? Now I'm confused. lol, k then! :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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