"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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3 tips for girls, life

KinkyMan

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1. Action

We all know actions speak more than words. Also, body language sends far more information than words. Everything you Do has meaning.

2. Energy

When you exercize you lose energy. The next time you exercize you will have more energy. Use this model for the energy you put into girls, and life.

3. Truth

When you are conveying the 'right' body language, and have a 'successful' attitude, you must believe it. Otherwise, you will lose sight of real success.

Tied together

The truth will unfold itself when you make a wrong action. The energy you spent on this action will go towards your development.



Conceptual, but I know having this mindset will help you with everything. I consider myself an independent, yet reactive person. When I first got into 'internet seduction' I thought this site was all about worshiping women; i.e. changing yourself to meet their desires. Now I realize that view about this site is not the truth. Many of the ideas expressed here are about improving Yourself. Guys find this site because they have trouble with women, but this is just the hook. The ideas here actually express independence from women. I suspect that many men who find this site are using their 'girl problems' as a crutch, an excuse to living up to their potential. Perhaps it is still the women who force boys to be men, but that is fine by me.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KinkyMan said:
1. Action

We all know actions speak more than words. Also, body language sends far more information than words. Everything you Do has meaning.

2. Energy

When you exercize you lose energy. The next time you exercize you will have more energy. Use this model for the energy you put into girls, and life.

3. Truth

When you are conveying the 'right' body language, and have a 'successful' attitude, you must believe it. Otherwise, you will lose sight of real success.

Tied together

The truth will unfold itself when you make a wrong action. The energy you spent on this action will go towards your development.



Conceptual, but I know having this mindset will help you with everything. I consider myself an independent, yet reactive person. When I first got into 'internet seduction' I thought this site was all about worshiping women; i.e. changing yourself to meet their desires. Now I realize that view about this site is not the truth. Many of the ideas expressed here are about improving Yourself. Guys find this site because they have trouble with women, but this is just the hook. The ideas here actually express independence from women. I suspect that many men who find this site are using their 'girl problems' as a crutch, an excuse to living up to their potential. Perhaps it is still the women who force boys to be men, but that is fine by me.
Nice post man :)
 
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