LuckyStrike88
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as the title
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
3 threads no reponses ok ill stop not made for this i guess :P
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sylvester the cat
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Should have gone NC aka radio silence. That way you would have maintained some dignity. Making a thread about no responses just makes you look like a whiny b1tch.
LuckyStrike88
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That's the thing im not a whiny ***** and my threads are pretty good so im confused 
NC is so 2014
NC is so 2014
LuckyStrike88
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Thanks brosoulforge said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sylvester the cat
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The beauty about NC aka radio silence is that it communicates that what you are. Strong and unmoveable.LuckyStrike88 said:That's the thing im not a whiny ***** and my threads are pretty good so im confused
The more you protest that what you are not (a whiny b1tch), the more you become (a whiny b1tch).