"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 things losers do...

Jon55

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3 Things that every loser does:

1) Make excuses

2) Blame others

3) Quit

Evaluate yourself now to see if you're doing any of these things. If so, ask yourself why you're doing them, and then re-read the list on what 3 things losers do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In context of "getting women" what is the difference between Next and Quit? I mean yeah the experienced DJ can read the signs even if they are mixed and proceed as needed. But for inexperienced?
 

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PEPE LE PIU said:
In context of "getting women" what is the difference between Next and Quit? I mean yeah the experienced DJ can read the signs even if they are mixed and proceed as needed. But for inexperienced?
The intensity of how she denied one of your requests.

You "next" when she flat out says no when you make a reasonable invite for something to do together, knowing that if she was interested she would say yes.

You do not quit when she says "Maybe", "I don't know", "I will only be free in the weekend", while giggling and continuing the conversation, in other words, while still showing signs of interest.

How do you define a sign of interest? Well, you make moves. You make jokes, touch, invite for activities. But don't hold on to this situation for too long, otherwise she just wants a friend.
 

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Nexting is very different than quitting. Nexting is not quitting, it's just changing targets. Some targets are out of range and having the wisdom to see that saves you a lot of time. Quitting is when you don't next. Quitting is settling for being some girl's doormat. You've quit when you chase the unattainable because you've taken yourself out of the game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don Juanabbe said:
Nexting is very different than quitting. Nexting is not quitting, it's just changing targets. Some targets are out of range and having the wisdom to see that saves you a lot of time. Quitting is when you don't next. Quitting is settling for being some girl's doormat. You've quit when you chase the unattainable because you've taken yourself out of the game.

Oh no no. This tip was not meant to be aimed towards that. This was more focused on your own personal goals and whatnot, not necessarily if some girl doesn't like you/you don't like her you continue to pursue her in hopes that something good comes out of it.
 

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that summarized up everything about a loser. i admit that i was once like that. but sometimes it takes a really good beating to wake me up. :)
 
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