Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Whats up cool kids?? I'm new here and just recently started reading these articles and books, so bare with me as I am still not too familiar with the terms. Here is whats goin on with me...
I've only dated one chick my whole life. Was a two year relationship, so I was outta The Game for some time. But I broke up with her and have been single ever since. Last month, I hit my lonely breaking point and freaked out about not having a gf or something close to a gf. But this month my relationship game took on a different toll.
First I started coming to this site, which helped a sh!tload. I also started taking a hell of a lot more risks in my life, including women, work, and plans for the future. I have been recently been seeing some success with women this month too thanks to risk. I broke this down into 3 posts to make it easier to read. Here are the women that I have had good interactions with, then I'll end it with the girl I would like to date.
The Chicka (HB8-9)
Beginning of December. First girl was this chick I met at Subway. I walked past Subway because I wanted to see who was working at the arcade next door (I know everyone there). While I walked past, I first noticed her. Cute, but I payed her no mind, because I didn't think I had a chance. (remember now, before this month, I was a big AFC) Didn't see too many people so I at the arcade, so I decided to eat at Subway. Forgetting she was there, I walked in and got stared down by this older fat b~tch. Luckily she left immediately. Behind her was the girl. As soon as she saw me, she lit up. Started talking to me.
Her: How are you doing?
Me: Tired as hell, workin my buttcheeks off. Busy, you?
Her: I'm tired too. Working 10-12 shifts suck.
Me: GOD-DAYUM! 12 hours? I couldn't do it.
Her: Really, why not?
Me: I like making money to a point. But if I'm too busy making it, I wont have time to spend it.
Her: That is so true.
Me: Where do you work anyways?
The discussion moved into a couple of topics, but as you can see, we hit it off. This is before I started coming to this site, so you won't see me using and of the steps or models we are very familiar with. Anyways, this is where it got interesting...
Her: So do you work every Thursday. (IOI!! And today was Thursday...duh)
Me: My schedule is random. Just look for me. I work all the time so I wont be hard to find.(What I wanted to say was:Uh... IF YOU WANT ME TO!! But of course my AFC self didn't let that happen)
She said her goodbyes and what not. Didn't see her all weekend after that. Decided to stop by her store, but she wasn't there. Found out she worked Tuesday. Went in on Tuesday. She was on break, so I left her my number. She texted me as soon as she got it...
This is where the downfall began... I wasn't smooth all week. I was a chump. A big AFC. I even was stupid enough to mention that I didn't have any game to spit. That was a huge turn off for her. She slowly stopped talking to me. Then we talked one last time. Asked her if she was into me. Gotta LJBF text and left it at that.
I saw all my mistakes now that I know what to look for. I would love a second chance with her. But we don't talk at all. I'ma get outta the FZ soon enough. NEXT!!...
The thread is being weird and won't let me post another reply. So I'm putting my last story (THE IMPORTANT STORY) right here. This is the story I want feedback on the most. Thanks DJ's!
The Chick I Wanna Date (HB9)
I met this girl through my friend's gf. My friends name is D-row (not real name of course. His gf's name is Sal. Sal is a manager at a shoe store. Her Co-Manager is the girl I'm into. I'll call HD. One day I get a call from Sal asking if I could give one of her coworkers home. Since I'm super generous when it comes to giving people rides, I say yes with no hesitation. I didn't know it was her. It was the first time we met. Cute as hell! This was before I came to this site. In the car, we talked. We clicked instantly. She like my genre of music. (Its hard to like my genre. Its not popular). That was a plus. I dropped her off. I didn't think much of it cuz I didn't plan on seeing her after that. I would occasionally walk by HD's store and wave at her goof-ily. But other than that, we didn't talk for a while. Then I found this site.
I wanted to take more risks with women, so I went to the mall, where both of our stores are located, and talked to everyone I came in contact with. This is the day after Christams too. I walked into HD's store and saw her looking upset. I went in and the convo went like this...
Me: You looked pissed.
HD: No, I'm just tired.
Me: Do you drink coffee or energy drinks?
HD: Yea, but I didn't have time to get anything before I came.
Me: What do you want?
HD: You don't have to get me anything.
Me: I would want you to do the same for me. Its not a problem.
HD: Hmm, ok. Coffee would be fine.
I left. I didn't go straight there though. I didn't want to seem like I was her little errand boy who was wrapped around her finger. I chilled at my store for about 10-15 mins before I got coffee for her. I went back and gave it to her. The convo continued...
HD: Thank you soooo much.
Me: Like I said, I would want you to do the same for me.
HD: How was your Christmas?
Me: Chill. Slept in. Played video games all morning, then did some art study stuff.
HD: Nice. Mine was ok. Until my sister showed up at my house being a b!tch.
Me: How so??
I know convo's like this are frowned upon, but it worked great. We talked and found out we had sooo much in common. You know how girls just want to be heard, but not helped. Thats what I did. But I played it off. I usually would give people advice when they would talk like that to me, but I held my tongue. It was so hard. I teased her when necessary, then busted her too. And I tried to find differences so that I wasn't so easy to get. Here is a part of a convo...
Me: Yea, my shoes are crap, but I like my K-SWISS.
HD: You know, to be honest, I don't like K-SWISS much.
Me: Well then we would never work, unless you could convince me why I shouldn't like those shoes.
HD: I just never liked. I don't know why exactly.
Me: Well then I guess we won't work out. You better think of something else.
HD: *laughs*
I then walk around the store so I didn't give her all my attention. I wanted her to work for me. I talked to some of her customers in there. I went back up there and we continued talking. We were clicking like a PC gamers computer mouse. I didn't want to push her away too much, so I stuck with teasing. Then outta no where we got on the subject of family and life. I didn't want her to continue, but she liked talking, so I let her do her thing. It actually turned out to be a very good conversation about out beliefs about family and all this other stuff. I teased her more, to remind her that I was interested. She brought up something about her sister saying the HD was on drugs cuz of relationship problems. I asked if she was single. She said she had a boyfriend. I made an awkward pause. I was about to change the subject, then she said, "Well, we're just talking. He doesn't get to see me as ofter as HE would like." She mentioned she wasn't anywhere close to being a social person. Which I didn't mind. I use to be one. A few customers came up. After they left, I told her I was gonna leave cuz it was getting busy. She asked me to stay. Kudos for me.
We continued talking, then Sal walked in. I teased them both for a minute. We were all acting goofy. I told them I had to go in a sec. Then HD mentioned something about her goofy voicemail message. I gave her my fone and told her to call herself with it so I could hear it. BAM! Easy number. She locked my number in and I took that as time to go. Left on a high point.
Next day, I was on my lunch. Walked past HD's store. She was working. I waved. This wave was different. It was sexy smirk wave. I wasn't gonna miss out on that. Went back in and she gave me one of those, "nice to see you" hi's. She was into me. We joked around, and I teased her some more. Then I started talking to her coworker. Very cool guy. Talked for a minute. Then went back to flirting. This is where I got stupid.... She mentioned going to my store to buy Assassin's Creed 2. Assuming she was all talk, I jumped in and said I would get it for her. I shoulda just let her come to my store and visit me. But nope. I was stupid. On top of that, I'm running an errand for her. I get her her game and save her $10 with my discount. Once again, me being dumb decide that I could be myself. Mistake!! She said, "Your acting a lot blacker today." She laugh when she said it, but still. I went back to being chill mode. Following the black comment, she told a story about a horrible drug deal she saw. While she was telling the story, she was getting ready to close her store. But I had a relate-able story. She told me she had to close and she would get in trouble if I was there. I told the story anyways like a dumbass. She laughed at it and made a comment about it, but I felt stupid about it.
Overall, a nice 2 days with her. I don't know how the second day affected her. I wanna see her again though. What do I do next guys?
I forgot to mention, I texted her about seeing her twin. It was just a girl that looked like her, but I used it to my advantage. She texted back... 3 hours later. And the conversation didn't go anywhere. I knew she was anti-social, but man. I texted her again about an inside joke but tried to get some info outta her. No response. I didn't worry about them either times, but its gonna be hard with her not texting or calling.
WHAT DO I DO NEXT?
Sorry for the long post. I just wanted to give you guys all the details so you guys had something to work with.
I've only dated one chick my whole life. Was a two year relationship, so I was outta The Game for some time. But I broke up with her and have been single ever since. Last month, I hit my lonely breaking point and freaked out about not having a gf or something close to a gf. But this month my relationship game took on a different toll.
First I started coming to this site, which helped a sh!tload. I also started taking a hell of a lot more risks in my life, including women, work, and plans for the future. I have been recently been seeing some success with women this month too thanks to risk. I broke this down into 3 posts to make it easier to read. Here are the women that I have had good interactions with, then I'll end it with the girl I would like to date.
The Chicka (HB8-9)
Beginning of December. First girl was this chick I met at Subway. I walked past Subway because I wanted to see who was working at the arcade next door (I know everyone there). While I walked past, I first noticed her. Cute, but I payed her no mind, because I didn't think I had a chance. (remember now, before this month, I was a big AFC) Didn't see too many people so I at the arcade, so I decided to eat at Subway. Forgetting she was there, I walked in and got stared down by this older fat b~tch. Luckily she left immediately. Behind her was the girl. As soon as she saw me, she lit up. Started talking to me.
Her: How are you doing?
Me: Tired as hell, workin my buttcheeks off. Busy, you?
Her: I'm tired too. Working 10-12 shifts suck.
Me: GOD-DAYUM! 12 hours? I couldn't do it.
Her: Really, why not?
Me: I like making money to a point. But if I'm too busy making it, I wont have time to spend it.
Her: That is so true.
Me: Where do you work anyways?
The discussion moved into a couple of topics, but as you can see, we hit it off. This is before I started coming to this site, so you won't see me using and of the steps or models we are very familiar with. Anyways, this is where it got interesting...
Her: So do you work every Thursday. (IOI!! And today was Thursday...duh)
Me: My schedule is random. Just look for me. I work all the time so I wont be hard to find.(What I wanted to say was:Uh... IF YOU WANT ME TO!! But of course my AFC self didn't let that happen)
She said her goodbyes and what not. Didn't see her all weekend after that. Decided to stop by her store, but she wasn't there. Found out she worked Tuesday. Went in on Tuesday. She was on break, so I left her my number. She texted me as soon as she got it...
This is where the downfall began... I wasn't smooth all week. I was a chump. A big AFC. I even was stupid enough to mention that I didn't have any game to spit. That was a huge turn off for her. She slowly stopped talking to me. Then we talked one last time. Asked her if she was into me. Gotta LJBF text and left it at that.
I saw all my mistakes now that I know what to look for. I would love a second chance with her. But we don't talk at all. I'ma get outta the FZ soon enough. NEXT!!...
The thread is being weird and won't let me post another reply. So I'm putting my last story (THE IMPORTANT STORY) right here. This is the story I want feedback on the most. Thanks DJ's!
The Chick I Wanna Date (HB9)
I met this girl through my friend's gf. My friends name is D-row (not real name of course. His gf's name is Sal. Sal is a manager at a shoe store. Her Co-Manager is the girl I'm into. I'll call HD. One day I get a call from Sal asking if I could give one of her coworkers home. Since I'm super generous when it comes to giving people rides, I say yes with no hesitation. I didn't know it was her. It was the first time we met. Cute as hell! This was before I came to this site. In the car, we talked. We clicked instantly. She like my genre of music. (Its hard to like my genre. Its not popular). That was a plus. I dropped her off. I didn't think much of it cuz I didn't plan on seeing her after that. I would occasionally walk by HD's store and wave at her goof-ily. But other than that, we didn't talk for a while. Then I found this site.
I wanted to take more risks with women, so I went to the mall, where both of our stores are located, and talked to everyone I came in contact with. This is the day after Christams too. I walked into HD's store and saw her looking upset. I went in and the convo went like this...
Me: You looked pissed.
HD: No, I'm just tired.
Me: Do you drink coffee or energy drinks?
HD: Yea, but I didn't have time to get anything before I came.
Me: What do you want?
HD: You don't have to get me anything.
Me: I would want you to do the same for me. Its not a problem.
HD: Hmm, ok. Coffee would be fine.
I left. I didn't go straight there though. I didn't want to seem like I was her little errand boy who was wrapped around her finger. I chilled at my store for about 10-15 mins before I got coffee for her. I went back and gave it to her. The convo continued...
HD: Thank you soooo much.
Me: Like I said, I would want you to do the same for me.
HD: How was your Christmas?
Me: Chill. Slept in. Played video games all morning, then did some art study stuff.
HD: Nice. Mine was ok. Until my sister showed up at my house being a b!tch.
Me: How so??
I know convo's like this are frowned upon, but it worked great. We talked and found out we had sooo much in common. You know how girls just want to be heard, but not helped. Thats what I did. But I played it off. I usually would give people advice when they would talk like that to me, but I held my tongue. It was so hard. I teased her when necessary, then busted her too. And I tried to find differences so that I wasn't so easy to get. Here is a part of a convo...
Me: Yea, my shoes are crap, but I like my K-SWISS.
HD: You know, to be honest, I don't like K-SWISS much.
Me: Well then we would never work, unless you could convince me why I shouldn't like those shoes.
HD: I just never liked. I don't know why exactly.
Me: Well then I guess we won't work out. You better think of something else.
HD: *laughs*
I then walk around the store so I didn't give her all my attention. I wanted her to work for me. I talked to some of her customers in there. I went back up there and we continued talking. We were clicking like a PC gamers computer mouse. I didn't want to push her away too much, so I stuck with teasing. Then outta no where we got on the subject of family and life. I didn't want her to continue, but she liked talking, so I let her do her thing. It actually turned out to be a very good conversation about out beliefs about family and all this other stuff. I teased her more, to remind her that I was interested. She brought up something about her sister saying the HD was on drugs cuz of relationship problems. I asked if she was single. She said she had a boyfriend. I made an awkward pause. I was about to change the subject, then she said, "Well, we're just talking. He doesn't get to see me as ofter as HE would like." She mentioned she wasn't anywhere close to being a social person. Which I didn't mind. I use to be one. A few customers came up. After they left, I told her I was gonna leave cuz it was getting busy. She asked me to stay. Kudos for me.
We continued talking, then Sal walked in. I teased them both for a minute. We were all acting goofy. I told them I had to go in a sec. Then HD mentioned something about her goofy voicemail message. I gave her my fone and told her to call herself with it so I could hear it. BAM! Easy number. She locked my number in and I took that as time to go. Left on a high point.
Next day, I was on my lunch. Walked past HD's store. She was working. I waved. This wave was different. It was sexy smirk wave. I wasn't gonna miss out on that. Went back in and she gave me one of those, "nice to see you" hi's. She was into me. We joked around, and I teased her some more. Then I started talking to her coworker. Very cool guy. Talked for a minute. Then went back to flirting. This is where I got stupid.... She mentioned going to my store to buy Assassin's Creed 2. Assuming she was all talk, I jumped in and said I would get it for her. I shoulda just let her come to my store and visit me. But nope. I was stupid. On top of that, I'm running an errand for her. I get her her game and save her $10 with my discount. Once again, me being dumb decide that I could be myself. Mistake!! She said, "Your acting a lot blacker today." She laugh when she said it, but still. I went back to being chill mode. Following the black comment, she told a story about a horrible drug deal she saw. While she was telling the story, she was getting ready to close her store. But I had a relate-able story. She told me she had to close and she would get in trouble if I was there. I told the story anyways like a dumbass. She laughed at it and made a comment about it, but I felt stupid about it.
Overall, a nice 2 days with her. I don't know how the second day affected her. I wanna see her again though. What do I do next guys?
I forgot to mention, I texted her about seeing her twin. It was just a girl that looked like her, but I used it to my advantage. She texted back... 3 hours later. And the conversation didn't go anywhere. I knew she was anti-social, but man. I texted her again about an inside joke but tried to get some info outta her. No response. I didn't worry about them either times, but its gonna be hard with her not texting or calling.
WHAT DO I DO NEXT?
Sorry for the long post. I just wanted to give you guys all the details so you guys had something to work with.
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