"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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3 page complain letter from girlfriend, what to do?

Scorched

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3 page complain letter from girlfriend, what to do?
I don't think giving into her demands is going to get me any where... She would become less challenged (lost interest), she'd would complain more...

I've played the "being distant card" a little too much. Actually she complains about that, heh... hmmmm opinions please, don't hold back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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theunflushables

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Next time you see her, pull out the complaint letter and set it on fire. Tell her you've lost all respect for her because she decided to discuss her problems in a letter like she is in junior high instead of talking to you like an adult and then release her back into singledom and find someone who at least will respect you enough to talk to you about her issues.
 

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Tell her that she has mistaken you for Burger King, you are not a fast food chain and no she cannot have it her way.

Let her know that she is fired from the position of being your girlfriend while you begin accepting applications from fresh new talent. :up:
 

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DJDamage said:
Send her a 6 word email response:

"It over between us

Goodbye

Scorched"
this ^ or what i would do: completely completely ignore forever
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eaglez1177

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1. Take a brown bag
2. Put letter in brown bag
3. Sh*t in bag
4. Bring bag to girlfriend's doorstep
5. Light bag on fire
 
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