"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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3 month "anniversary"?

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usscrum

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I know, I know...anniversaries are a yearly thing, but hear me out.

My gf goes to school about an hour and a half away from me. She starts class this coming monday, which also happens to be 3 months since we started dating. I start class tuesday. I was thinking about driving down and surprising her after class and taking her out to eat, then leaving monday night. my friends are split on the issue, some think it would be great and others think its a bit too much. i'm not going to buy her anything, only surprise her and take her out to dinner. i figure i owe her...she has paid for most of our stuff recently since i haven't been working the past month. not to mention my ipod got stolen out of her apartment at a party a couple weeks ago and she just told me today that she bought me one and is having it shipped to my place. i figured i'd do something nice for her on her first day of class.

DJ's - thoughts, opinions?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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The fact that it coincides with your "three month anniversary" is kind of cheesy especially since that's not a real anniversary but I don't see a problem with the rest of your plan. I'd just do it any other day.
 
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Nothing wrong with taking your girl out to dinner every once in awhile dude, and hey she did replace your ipod which she didn't really have to do.
 
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