"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3 month "anniversary"?

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usscrum

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I know, I know...anniversaries are a yearly thing, but hear me out.

My gf goes to school about an hour and a half away from me. She starts class this coming monday, which also happens to be 3 months since we started dating. I start class tuesday. I was thinking about driving down and surprising her after class and taking her out to eat, then leaving monday night. my friends are split on the issue, some think it would be great and others think its a bit too much. i'm not going to buy her anything, only surprise her and take her out to dinner. i figure i owe her...she has paid for most of our stuff recently since i haven't been working the past month. not to mention my ipod got stolen out of her apartment at a party a couple weeks ago and she just told me today that she bought me one and is having it shipped to my place. i figured i'd do something nice for her on her first day of class.

DJ's - thoughts, opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The fact that it coincides with your "three month anniversary" is kind of cheesy especially since that's not a real anniversary but I don't see a problem with the rest of your plan. I'd just do it any other day.
 
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Nothing wrong with taking your girl out to dinner every once in awhile dude, and hey she did replace your ipod which she didn't really have to do.
 
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