"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3 Mandatory Resources that will make you a better Man and get you lots of poon

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While there are plenty of blogs, books, ebooks, tips, guides, videos, and so on, there are 3 resources which alone will transform your outlook on life. I feel they are mandatory if you truly want to understand the world.

If you just want to find your 'perfect girl' to shack up with or seal the deal with that elusive crush and not learn a thing in the process, ignore this post.

However if you want true enlightenment, get the following:

The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene (worthwhile to have as a hardcopy, but you can find a free pdf download)

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene (worthwhile to have as a hardcopy, but you can find a free pdf download)

Chateau Heartiste blog - http://heartiste.wordpress.com/ (start with earliest post in the archive and work your way backwards in chronological order - read everything)

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Read through these over the next couple months and see your life transform completely.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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those books are good and all but they get to wrapped up in that shakespeare type ****.

im lookiing for books which are clear and cut not hidden behind some old story
 

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The 48 laws of power was a pretty damn good book, but a lot of it I found I already do and apply to my life. Laws of seduction for next reading material it is! Shouldve posted the pdf links ;P
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To me,most of the stuff Greene teaches comes off as manipulation and cheating.
Its not geared towards creating a new self which is naturally attractive &
powerful but projecting a false image of what we are.

You don't need to be wicked and amoral to gain power unless you are dealing with the same category of men.
 

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Puru13 said:
To me,most of the stuff Greene teaches comes off as manipulation and cheating.
Its not geared towards creating a new self which is naturally attractive &
powerful but projecting a false image of what we are.

You don't need to be wicked and amoral to gain power unless you are dealing with the same category of men.
Power IS amoral. Morality itself is a flexible power play and self serving. Right & wrong has nothing to do with it, just action & consequence. For example:

Is it wrong to kill someone?

Is it wrong to kill someone who's threatening the life of your child/mother/loved one?

Just like Game, you can't get away from Power. Choosing not to participate doesn't absolve you from its effects. It'll just help other people take advantage of you more.

Be aware of the laws and do what is right in your mind and you will become a 'naturally attractive and powerful person'.
 

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Power isn't amoral and neither the hunger for gaining power is.How a man uses power completely depends on his character.

When dealing with shrewd people,I would for sure resort to Greene's strategies.People deserve exact treatment as they give me.But people we deal with in everyday life aren't druglords or mafias and would seldom hurt you while you both compete for power and status.They can be easily dealt with without getting amoral.You just need to be persuasive.
 
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