3 incidents of direspect!!!

[soulforge]

hey guys

some of you may have read my other thread... i recently dumped my girlfriend

she have been very disrespectful & i have been putting up with lots of crap from her for a while now.

i have been having some doubts on wether i did the right thing by dumping her, or did i over react??

please read & tell me if i did the right thing??



i want to give you 3 examples of bad behaviour that took place within one week, which pushed me to the edge... to the point where i felt i had no choice but to dump her!



EXAMPLE ONE - ok about a year ago i met her best friend, she seemed like a nice woman, had a good chat with her... when she left my ex asked me what i thought of her... i said she seems like a nice lady
couple of days later, my ex rings me & tells me, that her best friend does not like me or trust me, because of my ethnicity... her best friend basically told her, that she should get rid of me.

that people of my ethnicity are no good & she should dump me! as you can imagine i was sooooo pissd off about this. i was nice to this woman & this is how she treats me & generalizes me like that

now this friend of hers has never apologized to me... my ex likes me to stop over at her house 4 times a week... but she kept inviting this friend over whilst i was there... i could not stand being in the same room as this woman, as there was tension & i just could not stand being around her

so i had no choice but to go sit upstairs & sit in the bedroom like a banished little boy for an hour or two, while my girlfriend & this racist bigot are drinking tea down stairs & having a laugh

or sometimes i would have to go for a long walk outside, till her friend has left.

i found this really degrading... why should i have to leave the house, or hide upstairs in the bedroom? i had to do this on at least 4-5 different occasions

my girlfriend should not be inviting her over, when i am there? she knows how uncomfortable i feel & why should i have to hide for the sake of her bigot friend

so i asked my girlfriend not to invite this woman over, when i am there, as i hate having to leave the house or go sit upstairs...

her response was this - YOU HAVE GOT NO CHANCE! I WILL NOT STOP MY FRIENDS COMING OVER, WHEN YOU ARE HERE.. NO CHANCE
NOBODY IS TELLING YOU TO LEAVE THE HOUSE OR GO TO THE BEDROOM

then she started getting argumentative & swearing so i dropped the subject.

i was gutted to hear this... she rather not put her friend out of her way, but is not too bothered about me having to hide...



EXAMPLE TWO - she recently came off facebook, because we was always arguing about it... why? because i do not use facebook, never have wanted to... she on the other hand loves facebook

the problem is, she has loads of bodybuilders on there she talks to... hunky looking fit guys... when i ask her, why she talks to these men, she tells me they give her advice on health & nutrition & training... funny thing is.. i am into bodybuilding myself.. i workout 4-5 times a week.. i am not huge, but have got a good body...

so i ask her, you could always ask me about training or nutrition... but according to her, she does not regard me to be a body builder, because i am not huge lol

anyhow this became a problem, her chatting to all these guys... i confronted her about this

HER RESPONSE - I WILL TALK TO WHAT EVER MAN I WANT, NO MAN TELLS ME WHAT I CAN & CANNOT DO!!!

MY RESPONSE - I DUMPED HER

but 2 weeks later, i get the whole "i love you" and "i miss you" crap... so stupidly i took her back


she then came off facebook & told me, in order to save our relationship, she would never go back on facebook again... she told me she does not even like facebook & is glad she came off it....

anyhow her son is having some emotional problems & has been saying some strange things on facebook...

so guess what, she is back on facebook, she claims she needs to keep an eye on her son.

i can't really argue with that... so she agrees she will only be talking to her family & kids on facebook, but NO MEN

something told me, it will only be a matter of time, till she is talking to bodybuilders etc again... anyhow turns out she has now added her EX BOYFRIEND on facebook... she was seeing this guy about 15 years ago

so she claims she will not be adding any men to her facebook, then her f#cking ex boyfriends ends up on there... i tell her this could become a problem... she gives me all this crap about we are just friends

on the other hand, she hates the idea of me talking to exes and is not happy about it... turns out her ex boyfriend has split up with his wife.... so why contact my girlfriend?? maybe he is heartbroken or lonely & thinks he could get her back

i just don't think she should be chatting to her ex!


EXAMPLE THREE - my ex does not really go out drinking much... simply because she claims she is too old for it now (she used to work in a club) and used to go out all the time, before she met me

but when she got together with me, she told me, she does not want me to be this guy going out to bars/clubs etc and she does not want to do the same either... she rather neither one of us went out drinking

anyhow her friends invited her out for a drink & she wanted to go with out me... i found it funny, how she does not like me going out, but now all of a sudden it's ok for her to go out... but i was cool with it & said hey have a good night

anyhow she got changed that night & she wore the "SLUTTIEST" of tops...

now my ex is blond with big boobs... i mean this top she wore was wall to wall titties... i told her, that top is not ideal for you to be wearing in bars & pubs

so she just ignored me, tried to make out i was just being silly.. and went out like that anyway... not giving a fuk about how i felt

i know she wore that top, so she would be getting attention from men.. why else would she wear it

whilst she was gone, i sat there & thought long & hard about the relationship & came to the conclusion, that i cannot put up with this type of disrespect anymore.. i could tell she is testing me, to see how much she can get away with

she thinks she has me & i,m not going anywhere... the way things was going, i was certain at some point she will lose interest & dump me or start banging other guys


so i decided not to hang around for her to screw me over... so later that night i dumped the b@tch like used kitty litter!

i miss her like crazy some days, i miss the amazing sex... but she was killing myself esteem... and was in constant stress & turmoil


so guys do you believe i did the right thing? or have i over reacted???

 

[TheException]

Example 1 = Insecure about your race

Example 2 = Insecure about other guys

Example 3 = Insecure about other guys

Those are the real problems^

Im a firm believer, that if a guy acts like a chump or overwhelms a woman with his insecurities, that she will respond with sh1t behavior. Reason being is when you display the type of behaviors that you did, she no longer is attracted to you like she once was. Your insecurities drop her interest level. So over time she will take more and more and more. You have a lot of work to do, so let this be a learning experience...but you need a mindset shift.

How I would have responded?

Example 1 = Not give two sh1ts about the friend. I would have laughed when my gf told me "my best friend does not like me or trust me, because of my ethnicity". When shes over, I would have acted normal and treated normal. That way if she still hates you, now shes being the weirdo since your a normal guy. INSTEAD you got p1ssed off and held a grudge. Dont put yourself in a situation where its you vs a woman's friends. You dont have to like them or agree with them...but its not advantageous to be in an open war against them.

Example 2 = Let her ask about advice all she wants. Its most likely shes using them for attention and keeping them as beta orbiters. If she starts hanging out with them...if she CHEATS SHES DONE. But dont always jump to the worst conclusion. Also I am a personal trainer and my girlfriend is always looking for fitness advice....but I dont push any onto her. Thats not what our relationship is about. Im not her Doctor, Im not her personal trainer, Im her boyfriend. If she asks I will oblige, but Im not going to push my advice onto her...or anyone for that matter.

Example 3 = You can now tell her interest level in you is low. Women that are highly attracted to their boyfriends would never dress up like this and go out. They would rather sit at home with you. As played you failed. I would have said "cool, have fun" then hit up my friends and done something. By acting indifferent you might have got her hamster respinning by asking herself "well I totally expected him to be mad....but it was like he didnt care I was going out. I wonder why?". Instead you acted exactly how she expected you to....

Predictable = No vag1na tingles.

Lesson learned?

 

[Brighty]

hey guys

some of you may have read my other thread... i recently dumped my girlfriend

she have been very disrespectful & i have been putting up with lots of crap from her for a while now.

i have been having some doubts on wether i did the right thing by dumping her, or did i over react??

please read & tell me if i did the right thing??



i want to give you 3 examples of bad behaviour that took place within one week, which pushed me to the edge... to the point where i felt i had no choice but to dump her!



EXAMPLE ONE - ok about a year ago i met her best friend, she seemed like a nice woman, had a good chat with her... when she left my ex asked me what i thought of her... i said she seems like a nice lady
couple of days later, my ex rings me & tells me, that her best friend does not like me or trust me, because of my ethnicity... her best friend basically told her, that she should get rid of me.

that people of my ethnicity are no good & she should dump me! as you can imagine i was sooooo pissd off about this. i was nice to this woman & this is how she treats me & generalizes me like that

now this friend of hers has never apologized to me... my ex likes me to stop over at her house 4 times a week... but she kept inviting this friend over whilst i was there... i could not stand being in the same room as this woman, as there was tension & i just could not stand being around her

so i had no choice but to go sit upstairs & sit in the bedroom like a banished little boy for an hour or two, while my girlfriend & this racist bigot are drinking tea down stairs & having a laugh

or sometimes i would have to go for a long walk outside, till her friend has left.

i found this really degrading... why should i have to leave the house, or hide upstairs in the bedroom? i had to do this on at least 4-5 different occasions

my girlfriend should not be inviting her over, when i am there? she knows how uncomfortable i feel & why should i have to hide for the sake of her bigot friend

so i asked my girlfriend not to invite this woman over, when i am there, as i hate having to leave the house or go sit upstairs...

her response was this - YOU HAVE GOT NO CHANCE! I WILL NOT STOP MY FRIENDS COMING OVER, WHEN YOU ARE HERE.. NO CHANCE
NOBODY IS TELLING YOU TO LEAVE THE HOUSE OR GO TO THE BEDROOM

then she started getting argumentative & swearing so i dropped the subject.

i was gutted to hear this... she rather not put her friend out of her way, but is not too bothered about me having to hide...



EXAMPLE TWO - she recently came off facebook, because we was always arguing about it... why? because i do not use facebook, never have wanted to... she on the other hand loves facebook

the problem is, she has loads of bodybuilders on there she talks to... hunky looking fit guys... when i ask her, why she talks to these men, she tells me they give her advice on health & nutrition & training... funny thing is.. i am into bodybuilding myself.. i workout 4-5 times a week.. i am not huge, but have got a good body...

so i ask her, you could always ask me about training or nutrition... but according to her, she does not regard me to be a body builder, because i am not huge lol

anyhow this became a problem, her chatting to all these guys... i confronted her about this

HER RESPONSE - I WILL TALK TO WHAT EVER MAN I WANT, NO MAN TELLS ME WHAT I CAN & CANNOT DO!!!

MY RESPONSE - I DUMPED HER

but 2 weeks later, i get the whole "i love you" and "i miss you" crap... so stupidly i took her back


she then came off facebook & told me, in order to save our relationship, she would never go back on facebook again... she told me she does not even like facebook & is glad she came off it....

anyhow her son is having some emotional problems & has been saying some strange things on facebook...

so guess what, she is back on facebook, she claims she needs to keep an eye on her son.

i can't really argue with that... so she agrees she will only be talking to her family & kids on facebook, but NO MEN

something told me, it will only be a matter of time, till she is talking to bodybuilders etc again... anyhow turns out she has now added her EX BOYFRIEND on facebook... she was seeing this guy about 15 years ago

so she claims she will not be adding any men to her facebook, then her f#cking ex boyfriends ends up on there... i tell her this could become a problem... she gives me all this crap about we are just friends

on the other hand, she hates the idea of me talking to exes and is not happy about it... turns out her ex boyfriend has split up with his wife.... so why contact my girlfriend?? maybe he is heartbroken or lonely & thinks he could get her back

i just don't think she should be chatting to her ex!


EXAMPLE THREE - my ex does not really go out drinking much... simply because she claims she is too old for it now (she used to work in a club) and used to go out all the time, before she met me

but when she got together with me, she told me, she does not want me to be this guy going out to bars/clubs etc and she does not want to do the same either... she rather neither one of us went out drinking

anyhow her friends invited her out for a drink & she wanted to go with out me... i found it funny, how she does not like me going out, but now all of a sudden it's ok for her to go out... but i was cool with it & said hey have a good night

anyhow she got changed that night & she wore the "SLUTTIEST" of tops...

now my ex is blond with big boobs... i mean this top she wore was wall to wall titties... i told her, that top is not ideal for you to be wearing in bars & pubs

so she just ignored me, tried to make out i was just being silly.. and went out like that anyway... not giving a fuk about how i felt

i know she wore that top, so she would be getting attention from men.. why else would she wear it

whilst she was gone, i sat there & thought long & hard about the relationship & came to the conclusion, that i cannot put up with this type of disrespect anymore.. i could tell she is testing me, to see how much she can get away with

she thinks she has me & i,m not going anywhere... the way things was going, i was certain at some point she will lose interest & dump me or start banging other guys


so i decided not to hang around for her to screw me over... so later that night i dumped the b@tch like used kitty litter!

i miss her like crazy some days, i miss the amazing sex... but she was killing myself esteem... and was in constant stress & turmoil


so guys do you believe i did the right thing? or have i over reacted???

Are you fvcking serious?

You should have been gone way before. Holy **** dude.

Re-read what you just wrote, do you expect to get a lot of sympathy here on these boards or are you just venting and wanting others to approve of your decision? You have my approval, and hell, I would have been out of there a year ago when that happened.

If a woman is killing your self esteem and puts you in a state of constant stress and turmoil, she isn't your partner and she isn't your ally. She's not right for you and honestly, the only thing you probably really do miss about her is just the idea of her (i.e. a constant state of companionship). You'll find that with another, more deserving girl and forget all about her.

And protip: I guarantee what you think is "amazing sex" isn't all that amazing in retrospect when you actually find a girl that gives you actual amazing sex.

Im a firm believer, that if a guy acts like a chump or overwhelms a woman with his insecurities, that she will respond with sh1t behavior. Reason being is when you display the type of behaviors that you did, she no longer is attracted to you like she once was. Your insecurities drop her interest level. So over time she will take more and more and more.

This is true, one hundred and ten ****ing percent.

 

[Tictac]

Flush.

This chick is bad news, entitled and disrespectful.

Let her enjoy riding the **** carousel for as ling as she likes.

You have better things to do.

 

[zinc4]

Example 1 = Insecure about your race

Example 2 = Insecure about other guys

Example 3 = Insecure about other guys

Those are the real problems^

Im a firm believer, that if a guy acts like a chump or overwhelms a woman with his insecurities, that she will respond with sh1t behavior. Reason being is when you display the type of behaviors that you did, she no longer is attracted to you like she once was. Your insecurities drop her interest level. So over time she will take more and more and more. You have a lot of work to do, so let this be a learning experience...but you need a mindset shift.

How I would have responded?

Example 1 = Not give two sh1ts about the friend. I would have laughed when my gf told me "my best friend does not like me or trust me, because of my ethnicity". When shes over, I would have acted normal and treated normal. That way if she still hates you, now shes being the weirdo since your a normal guy. INSTEAD you got p1ssed off and held a grudge. Dont put yourself in a situation where its you vs a woman's friends. You dont have to like them or agree with them...but its not advantageous to be in an open war against them.

Example 2 = Let her ask about advice all she wants. Its most likely shes using them for attention and keeping them as beta orbiters. If she starts hanging out with them...if she CHEATS SHES DONE. But dont always jump to the worst conclusion. Also I am a personal trainer and my girlfriend is always looking for fitness advice....but I dont push any onto her. Thats not what our relationship is about. Im not her Doctor, Im not her personal trainer, Im her boyfriend. If she asks I will oblige, but Im not going to push my advice onto her...or anyone for that matter.

Example 3 = You can now tell her interest level in you is low. Women that are highly attracted to their boyfriends would never dress up like this and go out. They would rather sit at home with you. As played you failed. I would have said "cool, have fun" then hit up my friends and done something. By acting indifferent you might have got her hamster respinning by asking herself "well I totally expected him to be mad....but it was like he didnt care I was going out. I wonder why?". Instead you acted exactly how she expected you to....

Predictable = No vag1na tingles.

Lesson learned?

I agree with the basic premise of what you are saying...but she sounds like a majorly entitled low quality b%tch...why put up with someone like her in the first place? Op should have dumped her sooner....he acted insecure but there was sme disrespect going on from the get go he should have just dropped her a long time ago instead of letting it bother him.

 

[soulforge]

so i should have just let her carry on talking to her ex without question...

carry on hiding in her bedroom when her friend comes over, in case it all kicks off & not said anything

also let her wear what she wants, no matter how tarty it is without question?



guys this woman is all about control.... i have seen her pattern... this is how she operates

if we have an argument or a fallout & we stop talking, then i cave into her... i call her to talk to her, or apologize about something that may had been my fault

she reads that as a weakness on my part & the balance of power moving over to her side... when she feels like she may hold the power in the relationship now, because i caved in or said sorry to her

she then starts exerting that power (i.e) i will do what i want, when i want, talk to my ex etc etc

it's all about control & power in the relationship with her

 

[foreverAFC]

you are the one who chose to put up with all that crap, you should have been out the door the moment she disrepected you the first time, why do you keep desperately clinging on to this subhuman piece of garbage, its guys like you who make them think this type of behavior is fine

you would actually have to go hide upstairs from her racist friend, wtf

 

[Tiguere]

Because of guys like soulforge is why we have so many low quality slvts running rampant.

 

[Lord Hypnos]

dump her ass ASAP, she sounds like a piece of trash, there are better girls out there

 

[nismo-4]

TL;DR!

Seriously, you are in the friendzone, and you know that your princess is in another castle. Dump her ass now, for your own good. :yawn: Only you can decide whether or not to put up with women's bullsh*t. You apparently love it. And I don't know why.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

 

[European-DJ]

Run, and never look back - toxic low quality woman isn't hard to find these days, it's now a shame that you found one, but now that you realized she is up to no good, then you know what to do!

 

[soulforge]

TL;DR!

Seriously, you are in the friendzone, and you know that your princess is in another castle. Dump her ass now, for your own good. :yawn: Only you can decide whether or not to put up with women's bullsh*t. You apparently love it. And I don't know why.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

i already dumped her... just been having a bad day today, been thinking if i did the right thing or not....

almost everybody on here tells me i have... maybe i need assurance occasionally on days when i am feeling weak.. and start missing her

 

[GS750]

I'm in agreement with everyone. She sounds like trouble. You chose to stick it out even in your gut you probably knew that it was doomed.

 

[soulforge]

I'm in agreement with everyone. She sounds like trouble. You chose to stick it out even in your gut you probably knew that it was doomed.

yeh i stuck it out.... i cant explain how she made me feel... sometimes i felt amazing with her!

then sometimes felt like total crap... don't know if this woman was bdp... but she defo had narcassistic traits

i almost felt addicted to her... but trying my best to get this poison out of my system now

 

[MaddXMan]

i already dumped her... just been having a bad day today, been thinking if i did the right thing or not....

almost everybody on here tells me i have... maybe i need assurance occasionally on days when i am feeling weak.. and start missing her

Your gut tells you you did the right thing. Go with that.

 

[Alvafe]

so i should have just let her carry on talking to her ex without question...

carry on hiding in her bedroom when her friend comes over, in case it all kicks off & not said anything

also let her wear what she wants, no matter how tarty it is without question?



guys this woman is all about control.... i have seen her pattern... this is how she operates

if we have an argument or a fallout & we stop talking, then i cave into her... i call her to talk to her, or apologize about something that may had been my fault

she reads that as a weakness on my part & the balance of power moving over to her side... when she feels like she may hold the power in the relationship now, because i caved in or said sorry to her

she then starts exerting that power (i.e) i will do what i want, when i want, talk to my ex etc etc

it's all about control & power in the relationship with her

talking with exes is not a good thing but let's say she will talk with her ex, so should you if she says no then you say "funny, I though you was agaisnt people talking with exes"

with her friend the problem was you, you just shows up as a brat who can't get something from your parents so you go to your room all angry not wanting to talk with anyone, its her firend and she don't like you? it ok but you still talk with her normally and make fun of her make your GF laught when doing it even her friend too, you are showing you don't ****ing care what others think and will have fun the same way, if she was really that annoying to you amke it be a classy like well I will meet some friends and let your girls talk, try to be more classy its the same like you having a client you hate or a boss, you fake you like then.

the 3rd one just shows up she had all the control of LTR, she says something you do you say something she ignores, for me the big red flag would be the child only.

good you dumped her now try to work more with not caring what otehrs will think

 

[soulforge]

talking with exes is not a good thing but let's say she will talk with her ex, so should you if she says no then you say "funny, I though you was agaisnt people talking with exes"

with her friend the problem was you, you just shows up as a brat who can't get something from your parents so you go to your room all angry not wanting to talk with anyone, its her firend and she don't like you? it ok but you still talk with her normally and make fun of her make your GF laught when doing it even her friend too, you are showing you don't ****ing care what others think and will have fun the same way, if she was really that annoying to you amke it be a classy like well I will meet some friends and let your girls talk, try to be more classy its the same like you having a client you hate or a boss, you fake you like then.

the 3rd one just shows up she had all teh control of LTR, she says something you do you say something she ignores, for me the big red flag would be the child only.

good you dump her now try to work more with not caring what otehrs will think

she told me, she did not want me talking to any of my females friends, unless it is on facebook...

huh i am not even on facebook, nor are most of my females friends... she said if i spoke to female friends by text or phone, then as far as she is concerned we are over!

WTF talking to the opposite sex is talking to the opposite sex... wether it's done on facebook or by text... wtf is the difference

her facebook, is on her mobile phone as an app, so she gets all these emails from guys to her phone... wtf is the difference with getting a text

she was not happy about me having females contacting me... never mind ex girlfriends... i would not even go there


as for her friend thing... yes she didn't like me... but it's different when somebody dislikes you simply for who you are...

if i was a jerk to her friend, or was rude to her, then yes maybe she could dislike me

but this woman dislikes me for my very existents... how do i get past that, or change that... lol

also i never ever got an apology? how many of you guys would allow people to talk sh@t about you & disrespect you & then carry on like nothing has happened & try to be nice to that person

she also suggested to my girlfriend that she should leave me... how do i forget that

 

[soulforge]

also on the ex subject... she has moved the goal post to suit herself

at first she was dead against me even texting or talking to female friends..

but now because she is talking to her ex... when i said to her, i bet you would have a problem with me talking to my ex?

she now is claiming that she is fine with that... the goal post has been moved, so she can have her own way

 

[Harry Wilmington]

I went through a break up similar to this. While the girl was not as disrespectful as your ex, she did and/or said things that let me know we were not compatible, so we broke up.

The feelings you're experiencing is what I call the "Why can't she just act normal?!?" phase. It's the phase where you're glad u broke it off cause it was the right thing to do, yet at the same time you're still attracted to her (or the way she looks or whatever) and you think to yourself, "we would still be together if she would just fix her attitude - why can't she just act normal??"

It's basically a war between your logical side and your emotional side. As time passes you'll be able to get over her, but only if you make a serious effort to (a) not get back with her, (b) not hang around her or respond to her calls/messages, and (c) work on finding your next girlfriend. Best of luck to ya!

 

[GetFit66]

EXAMPLE ONE - ok about a year ago i met her best friend, she seemed like a nice woman, had a good chat with her... when she left my ex asked me what i thought of her... i said she seems like a nice lady
couple of days later, my ex rings me & tells me, that her best friend does not like me or trust me, because of my ethnicity... her best friend basically told her, that she should get rid of me.

*cool story bro attitude, your move ex*

that people of my ethnicity are no good & she should dump me! as you can imagine i was sooooo pissd off about this. i was nice to this woman & this is how she treats me & generalizes me like that

*people are stupid, how stupid are you to give into their ignorance*

now this friend of hers has never apologized to me... my ex likes me to stop over at her house 4 times a week... but she kept inviting this friend over whilst i was there... i could not stand being in the same room as this woman, as there was tension & i just could not stand being around her


so i had no choice but to go sit upstairs & sit in the bedroom like a banished little boy for an hour or two, while my girlfriend & this racist bigot are drinking tea down stairs & having a laugh


*fight back at the friend (like a man) - get rid of her. Or win her over.

Don't sit in your room like a banished little boy for godsakes. Are you a man? A man defends his kids, your testies are you ****ing kids biggot*

or sometimes i would have to go for a long walk outside, till her friend has left.

*dumbass go kick some ass. This is your territory*

i found this really degrading... why should i have to leave the house, or hide upstairs in the bedroom? i had to do this on at least 4-5 different occasions

*it took you this long to come up with a come back, and it's not even a come back. Chump.*

my girlfriend should not be inviting her over, when i am there? she knows how uncomfortable i feel & why should i have to hide for the sake of her bigot friend

*sounds like her friend has the balls between the three of you and on occasion your ex gets to play with them while you sit upstairs like a little girl. Or go take a time out while you are told to think about your actions*

so i asked my girlfriend not to invite this woman over, when i am there, as i hate having to leave the house or go sit upstairs...

*shouldn't have come to this*

her response was this - YOU HAVE GOT NO CHANCE! I WILL NOT STOP MY FRIENDS COMING OVER, WHEN YOU ARE HERE.. NO CHANCE
NOBODY IS TELLING YOU TO LEAVE THE HOUSE OR GO TO THE BEDROOM

*you just got told. Really bro? *

then she started getting argumentative & swearing so i dropped the subject.

*I'm pretty sure you apologized for something that wasn't you fault*

i was gutted to hear this... she rather not put her friend out of her way, but is not too bothered about me having to hide...


Let's put it this way... Find a nicer girl like everyone suggests, nice girls are always nice. Or learn to dominate the world cuz there will always be ****.

I'm not even going to explain #2,3

The girl did not commit any cardinal sins since you never really tested her, she needs much more aggression and dominance to control her. You arn't her type, shes not your type as of now. You can change things - not necessary, but its up to you what kind of animal you want to dominate. And everyone here could be right - she might really just be wack. But you put up no fight - so its too early to tell.