"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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3 girls one me

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three girls..they all like me...what shuld i do here..im one luky bastrd..


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1. 7/10 she realy likes me (its obvious) she trys to call me at least once a day. i thiink "we" would definatly last because our personalitys intertwine so well plus shes pretty hot...one HUGE problem..shes my best friends girlfriend..he is in juvie atm for 9 months but he is like my brother and i love him like my brother. but this girl is what i think the best of the the three is for me but its just my friend keep in mind the juvie factor.....

2. 9.999/10 this girl is totaly fuking hot i mean gorgeous...we had it realy bad for eachother awhile back....we are going camping with friends next week and she says the only reason shes going is so she can sleep in a bed with me (it wasnt sarcasm or joking it was serious too YESSS) but what i want is a relationship and i know shes pretty much cheated on EVERY boyfriend shes had

3. 5/10 shes ok looking but theres no risk with her at least she for sure likes me too but im like half assed interested cause shes not that hot too low for me because i would be like a 8 or a 9



how should i play this out
i really like number 1 alot and number 2 a little (kinda just want to **** her cuase i get to next week)..
but i dont like to wait a week..one **** means nothing...what should i do with this niche im in???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seriously.. you need help to decide this?

You've already written that no1 is off limits because of your friend and that no3 is not interesting at all (the only thing you mention about her is that she is interested in you.. is that enough to make her your girlfriend?)

You should bang no2, the 9.999, but not necessarily make her exclusive if you don't have that feelings.

Why do you want a relationship just for the relationship?
My opinion is that a relationship is something you end up in when you meet someone special, it's not a state I'm actively pursuing!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fisherman said:
Seriously.. you need help to decide this?

You've already written that no1 is off limits because of your friend and that no3 is not interesting at all (the only thing you mention about her is that she is interested in you.. is that enough to make her your girlfriend?)

You should bang no2, the 9.999, but not necessarily make her exclusive if you don't have that feelings.

Why do you want a relationship just for the relationship?
My opinion is that a relationship is something you end up in when you meet someone special, it's not a state I'm actively pursuing!
yeh but see the whole 9 months in juvie thing i mean come on is she seriously gona keep groping over him for that long i mean **** shes already allover me practicly i just dont want to piss off my friend...im always bros before hoes but hell my buddie goes in and out of juvie as oftenly as i go in and out from my room


and the thing is ive been a very active partyer and fuking one girl means nothing when youve lived like i have..and no1 is like perfect in that aspect but i mean hell im deffinaly gona **** no2 then i will either work on no1 or just find new girls becuase i dont want a relationship with a fuking slut like no2... and the reason i want one is because i realy havnt ever had a real one, the only stuff ive done with girls is have sex and some dates but i want to stop doing the partieing thing because im almost 18 now..i wana clean up my image and get a quality girl and stop my reckless lifestyle, get an education and become successfull
 

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I'm pretty much in a state like that all the time with on average 10 girls. The best thing to do is not dedicate yourself to any one girl and just have fun with all of them. What did your buddy do to land 9 months in juvie?
 

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GaryUranga said:
dont ever go for #1 if you dotn want your friend for sure to be hatin you
your right i got 4 best firends we are all like fuking brothers we would take bullets for eachother he is one of them thats liek stabbing my brother in the back i dont know what i was thinking...

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I'm pretty much in a state like that all the time with on average 10 girls. The best thing to do is not dedicate yourself to any one girl and just have fun with all of them. What did your buddy do to land 9 months in juvie?
he is in juvie because his dumbass got caught with throwing knives awhile back now he gets uas all the time and fails because we smoke weed like 919191283912 times a day and hes to dumb to clear his system correctly ahaha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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naes420 said:
yeh but see the whole 9 months in juvie thing i mean come on is she seriously gona keep groping over him for that long i mean **** shes already allover me practicly i just dont want to piss off my friend...im always bros before hoes but hell my buddie goes in and out of juvie as oftenly as i go in and out from my room


and the thing is ive been a very active partyer and fuking one girl means nothing when youve lived like i have..and no1 is like perfect in that aspect but i mean hell im deffinaly gona **** no2 then i will either work on no1 or just find new girls becuase i dont want a relationship with a fuking slut like no2... and the reason i want one is because i realy havnt ever had a real one, the only stuff ive done with girls is have sex and some dates but i want to stop doing the partieing thing because im almost 18 now..i wana clean up my image and get a quality girl and stop my reckless lifestyle, get an education and become successfull
Good, you really should: "stop my reckless lifestyle, get an education and become successfull"

But 18 is no age, not many relationships start at 18 and ends with life long marriage (at least not where I'm from, but ofcourse there are countries where this is the standard).
You do not need a girlfriend to achieve your goals, the truth is that she can even hold you back.
 

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Take all 3 to your house and game them. Start some kind of crazy orgy. Naw, I'm just playin. But, I would try it anyway! Just date each of them and see which one you like best!
 
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