"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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3 Different Girls.. 3 Different Stories.. Help Plz..

sozzz

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3 DIFFERENT GIRLS... 3 DIFFERENT STORIES...
as im sitting resting.. this girl walked by and i happened to turn to her direction as soon as she looked at me.

when i turned to her direction to look at her.. i saw her glancing at my way where im sitting at.. its like she knew i was sitting there or something. well.. when i looked at her she looked at me and saw me looking at her so she looked down MAD QUICK like she never saw me sitting there.. and played with her cell..

what is she doing..?

2.im sitting on a bench resting.. and this girl who's been looking at me whenever im sitting somewhere. she'd look over when im not looking or not catch her looking at me. sometimes i pretend i dont see her so she'd look over at me, lol.

well.. today.. im sitting.. she walked halfway pass me, and then some lady stopped her to talk. she was facing me with her full body while talking to this one lady.. i mean.. wouldn't your body face the body you're talking to not the person that's sitting somewhere..? her body and feet where pointing at me like everything i guess..

how should i approach this girl if i happen to walk by her..?

3.she's been doing nothing but smiling at me whenever she sees me.. i'd smile back but friendly.. but her.. she does the whole showing teeth kinda smile while looking at me.. other guys hit on her and $hit too, but she doesnt smile to them the way she does to me, or maybe im lying to myself.. i dunno :(.. but that doesnt tell much i guess. so i don't know how i should try and win her..

today.. as she's talking to a group of ppl.. she noticed me from far away.. she looked at me while i'm far away walking toward her but not to her.. i mean pass her. as i got closer to her.. she turned the other way and pretended to talk to other ppl..?

but whenever i see her.. she'd bigass teeth smile.. i never see her never smile at me. i'm afraid she might be teasing me.. so i dont know..

when she's far away.. she'd just look at me with a sad or relax face.. but when im near her or walk by her.. she'd smile at me... maybe because i'm walking by her and shes just being friendly.. or shes trying to tease me so i would ask her out and then she could reject me..?

I WANT TO GET ALL THEM OF THEIR NUMBERS but not sure how.. i wanna get it asap without looking like desperate n such if u know what i mean.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ_Matthew

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Wow this isn't rocket science.

Grow some balls, approach them, get the number.

Voila - You've done the impossible.
 

sozzz

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about time somebody is nice enough to help.. :cry:

i dont know which one likes me though man.. :(

i want to ask the 3rd girl out but im not sure if she likes me or not..

i've never talk to her before.. i just see her stare and smile at me all the time.. i want to ask her out but considering we've never talk to each other at all.. it's going to be hard to ask her out let alone her number..

PLZ HELP ME SOMEBODY!! :( :(
 

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You don't need anyone's help.

You need yourself to go up and talk to them.


go ahead, i promise they won't hurt you.


or are you just a wimp....?
 

lifesfun

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hey man

I can see form your post that you are still not getting what dj matthew is saying:

grow some balls in other words get some confidence and be a man
confidence=lack of doubt
you need to stop looking at girls from behind the glass window because you are not buying girls they are trying to get you to buy them. Never worship girls because girls are really dorky children who need your supervision!

So what i want you to do first is to accept yourself and love yourself. If you are not a person you like then become a person you like.

Now to answer ur question " which girl likes me?"
Number one stop being insecure.... girls like you! Number 2 being concerned if a girl likes you or not is not nearly as important as if you are interested in her. SO ask yourself" Am I interested in this girl" which obviously is a yes in your case...so go talk to her to see if she is someone with traits that you want in a girl. Especially after the girl IOI's you!

Now slow down on thinking about asking her out because you need to talk to a girl to find out if she has more than looks and that she is fun. Trust me, you need to take these things one step at a time and not put so much pressure on yourself. Life should be fun if you want otherwise then i cant help you.

Hope this helps man
-go talk to these girls
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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