"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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3 Days Growth (Facial Hair)

Bigsnake

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Wasn't sure where to put this but I saw other posts in the past about facial hair were in this forum.

I've been searching and see a lot of people mention they look best with a few days growth of hair on their face. I personally don't like the way I look clean shaven and also don't really like a goatee or anything on my face either.

The question I have is a lot of people mention 3 days of hair growth. Does this mean you only get the look you like every three days? Do you shave and then not shave for three days?

Is there any type of trimmer out that that'll let you have that look everyday?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Caveman

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Ask the girl behind the counter. Ofcourse there is a trimmer..
 

Bigsnake

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
It's called a beard :p You've never heard of beard trimmers?
I didn't know that they could cut that short. I'll have to go look at them now.

I got a pretty short beard right now (3 weeks) and just use a scissors to trim some areas and a razor to keep the edges clean. I don't want to keep a long beard in the summer though. I work in the heat.
 

blackbirdbeatle

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Ya man, I've been sporting the 72 hour shadow for a while now. Got the miami vice beard going.

I just use some conair beard trimmers on a low setting.

I suppose when school starts again in the fall I'll start to shave it all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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