"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

3 Days Growth (Facial Hair)

Bigsnake

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2003
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
LA
Wasn't sure where to put this but I saw other posts in the past about facial hair were in this forum.

I've been searching and see a lot of people mention they look best with a few days growth of hair on their face. I personally don't like the way I look clean shaven and also don't really like a goatee or anything on my face either.

The question I have is a lot of people mention 3 days of hair growth. Does this mean you only get the look you like every three days? Do you shave and then not shave for three days?

Is there any type of trimmer out that that'll let you have that look everyday?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Caveman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 22, 2001
Messages
694
Reaction score
2
Location
NL
Ask the girl behind the counter. Ofcourse there is a trimmer..
 

Bigsnake

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2003
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
LA
Originally posted by Shiftkey
It's called a beard :p You've never heard of beard trimmers?
I didn't know that they could cut that short. I'll have to go look at them now.

I got a pretty short beard right now (3 weeks) and just use a scissors to trim some areas and a razor to keep the edges clean. I don't want to keep a long beard in the summer though. I work in the heat.
 

blackbirdbeatle

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 10, 2003
Messages
304
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Canada
Ya man, I've been sporting the 72 hour shadow for a while now. Got the miami vice beard going.

I just use some conair beard trimmers on a low setting.

I suppose when school starts again in the fall I'll start to shave it all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top