"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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trd323

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Allright guys, First, Great Forum. Second, i just recently changed myself to being confident and bold being "king" of my kingdom. And i used to be the "nice guy".Now, I started implementing a lot of knowledge about women (leykis 101, art of seduction, and this website) I have 3 chics all different. One is a typical model, good looking thin and everyone wants her, and I talk to her and ignore her, it seems to be working because I see her look at me at the corner of her eye, she initiates the greetings eventhough I have been in the room more than 10 min without saying a word. However, She seems to know her game also, she will ignore me, talk to other guys while we are talking, and tellme about her other "guys she is seeing. I know I have a shot with her. But when do I ask her on a date? Do I ask her out? or just play it cool? I do not want to lose the advantage that I seem to have with her, so what do I do? When is a good time to ask her to go out?

I will go over the other 2 later. I did not know this was going to be such a long post. thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your obviously new at all this and thats ok.

The best time to ask her out would be NOW.

Ignoring a girl before dating her is NEVER a good strategy.

You continue to act like you don't care about her..guess what happens..she moves on because she assumes you are either spineless or truly not interested in her.
 

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well, i dont really ignore her, but more like have the mentality that she is dispendible, and when she talks to other guys i just walk away and she will ask me later why I walked away. so, do we initially ignore a girl before talking to them or do we straight out ask a girl out? this is so confusing some people say ignore a girl, so that she does not think your everyone else then people say ask her out right away.

Oh I forgot to mention that she is in my classes so she is always there; its not like I met her at the mall and i dont see her again.
 

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Originally posted by trd323
Allright guys, First, Great Forum. Second, i just recently changed myself to being confident and bold being "king" of my kingdom. And i used to be the "nice guy".Now, I started implementing a lot of knowledge about women (leykis 101, art of seduction, and this website) I have 3 chics all different. One is a typical model, good looking thin and everyone wants her, and I talk to her and ignore her, it seems to be working because I see her look at me at the corner of her eye, she initiates the greetings eventhough I have been in the room more than 10 min without saying a word. However, She seems to know her game also, she will ignore me, talk to other guys while we are talking, and tellme about her other "guys she is seeing. I know I have a shot with her. But when do I ask her on a date? Do I ask her out? or just play it cool? I do not want to lose the advantage that I seem to have with her, so what do I do? When is a good time to ask her to go out?

I will go over the other 2 later. I did not know this was going to be such a long post. thanks
You say you have been reading/studying this forum and other works liek this but HAVE YOU???

And what the hell is the TITLE of this post about, your talking about ONE chick the whole post thru
 

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Re: Re: 3 chicks one guy

Originally posted by yunghova35
You say you have been reading/studying this forum and other works liek this but HAVE YOU???

And what the hell is the TITLE of this post about, your talking about ONE chick the whole post thru
I have read it. But like I stated above there are conflicting theories; which I also stated above. For example ignore a chick, but dont ignore a chick.

Again stated in the first post; I decided to talk about one chick because it was going to be a long post.

WOW, obviously you read a lot because there was no way in hell that you missed what I actually wrote. But thanks for your input as I will use this jibberish you wrote to put in my absolutely wasted time list in my life.

Again thanks for the post.:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd ask her out when i got a chance, just for drinks or coffee or lunch or something. Ultimately you just want to spend some more time with here so you can pick her brain and paint a good picture of yourself at the same time in a one on one situation.

I ignore girls in certain situations, but there are certain conditons that have to be met for that to happen. In a situation like this time is of the essence. If you play shadow games too much and don't move you'll be on the train to friendsville because she won't take you seriously.
 

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thanks, will be doing that in class today.
 
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