"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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trd323

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Allright guys, First, Great Forum. Second, i just recently changed myself to being confident and bold being "king" of my kingdom. And i used to be the "nice guy".Now, I started implementing a lot of knowledge about women (leykis 101, art of seduction, and this website) I have 3 chics all different. One is a typical model, good looking thin and everyone wants her, and I talk to her and ignore her, it seems to be working because I see her look at me at the corner of her eye, she initiates the greetings eventhough I have been in the room more than 10 min without saying a word. However, She seems to know her game also, she will ignore me, talk to other guys while we are talking, and tellme about her other "guys she is seeing. I know I have a shot with her. But when do I ask her on a date? Do I ask her out? or just play it cool? I do not want to lose the advantage that I seem to have with her, so what do I do? When is a good time to ask her to go out?

I will go over the other 2 later. I did not know this was going to be such a long post. thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your obviously new at all this and thats ok.

The best time to ask her out would be NOW.

Ignoring a girl before dating her is NEVER a good strategy.

You continue to act like you don't care about her..guess what happens..she moves on because she assumes you are either spineless or truly not interested in her.
 

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well, i dont really ignore her, but more like have the mentality that she is dispendible, and when she talks to other guys i just walk away and she will ask me later why I walked away. so, do we initially ignore a girl before talking to them or do we straight out ask a girl out? this is so confusing some people say ignore a girl, so that she does not think your everyone else then people say ask her out right away.

Oh I forgot to mention that she is in my classes so she is always there; its not like I met her at the mall and i dont see her again.
 

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Originally posted by trd323
Allright guys, First, Great Forum. Second, i just recently changed myself to being confident and bold being "king" of my kingdom. And i used to be the "nice guy".Now, I started implementing a lot of knowledge about women (leykis 101, art of seduction, and this website) I have 3 chics all different. One is a typical model, good looking thin and everyone wants her, and I talk to her and ignore her, it seems to be working because I see her look at me at the corner of her eye, she initiates the greetings eventhough I have been in the room more than 10 min without saying a word. However, She seems to know her game also, she will ignore me, talk to other guys while we are talking, and tellme about her other "guys she is seeing. I know I have a shot with her. But when do I ask her on a date? Do I ask her out? or just play it cool? I do not want to lose the advantage that I seem to have with her, so what do I do? When is a good time to ask her to go out?

I will go over the other 2 later. I did not know this was going to be such a long post. thanks
You say you have been reading/studying this forum and other works liek this but HAVE YOU???

And what the hell is the TITLE of this post about, your talking about ONE chick the whole post thru
 

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Re: Re: 3 chicks one guy

Originally posted by yunghova35
You say you have been reading/studying this forum and other works liek this but HAVE YOU???

And what the hell is the TITLE of this post about, your talking about ONE chick the whole post thru
I have read it. But like I stated above there are conflicting theories; which I also stated above. For example ignore a chick, but dont ignore a chick.

Again stated in the first post; I decided to talk about one chick because it was going to be a long post.

WOW, obviously you read a lot because there was no way in hell that you missed what I actually wrote. But thanks for your input as I will use this jibberish you wrote to put in my absolutely wasted time list in my life.

Again thanks for the post.:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd ask her out when i got a chance, just for drinks or coffee or lunch or something. Ultimately you just want to spend some more time with here so you can pick her brain and paint a good picture of yourself at the same time in a one on one situation.

I ignore girls in certain situations, but there are certain conditons that have to be met for that to happen. In a situation like this time is of the essence. If you play shadow games too much and don't move you'll be on the train to friendsville because she won't take you seriously.
 

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thanks, will be doing that in class today.
 
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