"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3-4k calories? How do you afford it?!?

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Im only 17 and I dont even have a job yet, I will soon though. But even so, how do you guys who eat 3-4k calories a day afford to do it EVERY SINGLE DAY?? Thats a LOT of food which means a LOT of money. I want to start lifting and bulk up using EFFORT's routine or rippetoe w/e. Im about 5' 8" and I fluctuate from 150-155 from time to time. How much do I really need to be eating since I am just starting out? I can't afford to eat 3k calories everyday. Help pls?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nuts are cheap, high in calories and good fats and proteins. Peanuts don't count. Cashews.... meeh.
 

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3-4k calories isn't too hard to do on a high fat diet. Some tbsps of olive oil, cottage cheese, heavy cream, whole eggs, ground beef, etc. they all do pretty well at raising the calorie count.
 

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Don't bulk if you just started lifting, once the n00b gains kick in, then see what your at. Stay around 2500-3000 calories and youll be fine
 

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Lol n00b gains...so for now just eat as much as possible, healthy of course, and just lift?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great link EFFORT. How much do you weigh? If you dont mind me asking...
 

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Chrom3y said:
Lol n00b gains...so for now just eat as much as possible, healthy of course, and just lift?
Exactly. Just by lifting, you will start to see decent gains right away, because your body isn't used to it. Stick to the big 3 compounds (bench, deadlift, squat) and you will start seeing results in no time.
 

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Thanks a lot SYL
 

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Espi said:
Protein
18 extra large eggs=$3.79
*4-pack Bumblebee Tuna=$7.49
80/20 ground beef=$3.49/lb.
Cottage cheese=$2.79
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wow that's expensive. this is what i pay

18 large eggs = $2
80/20 ground beef = $2.15
Chicken $1.79 - $2 a lb. i buy like 6 3-4lb packages at a time depending on which store is having the sale this week. Nearly EVERY week one of the stores is having a sale. I just look at their fliers online when i have only 1 package left.
Heavy creme. $3 - lasts like two weeks of taking 3 tblsp or so a day.

Tuna has gone way up in price. it used to be like $0.44 a can and now it's like 80 cents for the. Screw that; i never eat it anymore. Chicken is more economical and if tuna is no bargain anymore it's not worth the mercury risk even if it's minimal; i don't freakin know.

One day a week i cook chicken, and one day a week i cook beef. It lasts all week in two giant tupperware containers.

I get steak occasionally if i get the urge and feel like paying a little more but it's the cheaper steak that i'll get on sale for like $3-$3.5/lb.

Nuts are too expensive. If i have to ration them then they aren't "cheap."



I do the anabolic diet now. I spend about $6 a week on a couple frozens pizzas. I like carb up days and i pretty much go no holds barred on this fruity "good carb" crap... even drink beer. No craving for carbs the rest of the week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good posts guys

for all gym noobs, what Espi and mrRuckus wrote is the kind of lifestyle you're going to have to adopt to make drastic changes.

I started cooking bulk and using tupperware in grade 12. Used to bring a thermos box to school filled with lean ground beef and raw spinach. And a nice thermos jug with some protein shake in it. Put some ice packs in to keep the food fresh in the summer.

In between classes and at lunch I'd run out to my car and eat some beef and a handful of spinach, and wash it down with some protein shake.

Getting big isn't easy, but little things like bulk cooking/tupperware/food prep make it a lot more manageable.
 

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pb and poptarts are cheap calories but steak is the real pain in the wallet for me

i used to get these cheap beef chunks for stew

also check the egg section carefully cause there are some good deals sometimes

there are a lot of coupons for milk ...not sure y but its good


bulk ice cream and grocery store style protien powder
 

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espi & mr. r have money advice here. i love espi's freezer idea -- a chest freezer is very efficient, you just have someplace you can put it (and a cooperative landlord if you rent). if you can't swing that (and i can't) you can get generic veggies for 75-89 cents per pound at most grocery stores when on sale.

the prices i've paid in oh, md & nj are much closer to mr. R's than espi's. in addition to mr. R's weekly cooking, i also cook about a pound of dried beans each week (switching up varieties pretty often). they're dirt cheap ($1-1.50 per pound, which understates their value b/c you add your own water), full of soluble fiber (like oatmeal) and have the aminos that are missing from other vegetables (giving a complete protein source, if not necessarily an "ideal" amino profile like eggs).

i've also cut out the multi as i've increased the veggies in my diet, and significantly cut back the fish oil, since the only major sources of omega-6 fats in my diet are now nuts & peanut oil.
 

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Protein at grocery stores is often overpriced, and not very good.

Order it off of Bodybuilding.com, its cheap there.
 
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