“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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2x she flakes. now what

jay07

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This chick flaked 2x in the past month. First time was a trip upnorth she bailed on a day before, second time was a planned trip to some brewery thing she "forgot about her family reunion".

After she sent a text about her family reunion ive not made contact since, i was pretty annoyed simce i took her ass out a few days before. Only contact shes tried is thru snapchat which i open/close. No response. I feel like im being harsh like maybe her excuses were legit, but then agaim 2x aggravates me. Should i make it 3 strikes or fold em'
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Robert28

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jay07 said:
This chick flaked 2x in the past month. First time was a trip upnorth she bailed on a day before, second time was a planned trip to some brewery thing she "forgot about her family reunion".

After she sent a text about her family reunion ive not made contact since, i was pretty annoyed simce i took her ass out a few days before. Only contact shes tried is thru snapchat which i open/close. No response. I feel like im being harsh like maybe her excuses were legit, but then agaim 2x aggravates me. Should i make it 3 strikes or fold em'
Who the he11 forgets about a family reunion? I know about them months ahead of time and spend every waking minute trying to get out of those d@mn things! Maybe she did "forget" but that would tell me she is a complete idiot and not someone I want to have in my life if she can't keep her schedule any better then that. Why are you trying to take her on all these trips after only one date anyways? What are you, Expedia.com?
 

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Let her be, stop wasting time and being hopeful, her interest is low. Those are all bullshıt excuses, man.
 

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Yes. I needed a reality check. Folded.
 

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jay07 said:
This chick flaked 2x in the past month. First time was a trip upnorth she bailed on a day before, second time was a planned trip to some brewery thing she "forgot about her family reunion".

After she sent a text about her family reunion ive not made contact since, i was pretty annoyed simce i took her ass out a few days before. Only contact shes tried is thru snapchat which i open/close. No response. I feel like im being harsh like maybe her excuses were legit, but then agaim 2x aggravates me. Should i make it 3 strikes or fold em'
Fold the hand. She isn't interested but she also isn't considerate enough to just tell you so so instead she makes you make plans with her only to cancel.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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biggest thing number one: she never gave you a counter offer. If she was truly intrested she would have said her excuse then said how about we do x at such and such date. Not even a maybe we can do something but a definiate lets do. I just deleted this girls number after we met last week she texted me non stop and wanted to hang out. We were supposed to hang out this past weekend but she flaked. Then I texted her today abt this weekend and she said she was going to a marine corps ball. I read that and went delete.....nexxxtttt. Now il what's so ever, she will go to the ball get nailed by a few jar heads........army here......and come back seeking attention ...but not from me! Next her man don't waste time, life is to short.
 

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Two attempts at contact, whether they be call or text, with no reply delete the number. Two offers to get together met with flakiness/excuses/no counter offer delete the number. If she does attempt to contact you eventually take your time getting back to her...if at all. I learned this the hard way.
 

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The first time, she snapped me when i was about to go on a buggy, she tried to make me jealous so i snapped her back "your crazy if you think im jealous. Look ay whay im doin" so she responds "im sposed to be there :(" . Ignored. Then second time she countered with "oh got a family reunion, maybe we can go next week". Didnt respond. Didnt seem sincere. Havnt tried talking to her since.

Weve known each other for a while. But i think im just gonna nc her. Obvious attention *****.
 

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Attention wh0re. An uninterested one at that. There was no counteroffer. Your princess is in another castle. Drop her ass.

Case closed. :yawn:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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