2nd time a girl replies 'im busy' and how do u upload a photo here?

[TheGambino]

Yo bros im trying to develop my text game. (fault in the title: I asked this plate only once to get together and she said shes busy) in the title i mean second time A girl says 'im busy' thats why i figured to ask you guys what do u replie

A plate I number closed in the gym seems very interested face 2 face.
Texted her hey lets do something fun for the weekend, what day u free?

she replies: hey i can't this weekend its my mums birthday monday so my family and I going to do something ;p

I replied: okk no prob, gratz and have fun !

its not the first time that I get something like this back, how do u guys replie and follow up??

Btw: i got a date friday with this hb8, were going to the movies (yaap..) we were both crazy about an actress (different reasons lmao) and shes in it so we figured lets go to that movie. still gonna escalate

how do u actually upload a photo here? since solomon asked for it ill upload my crazy ex, the reason I found out bout this all .

 

[Skyline]

here? since solomon asked for it ill upload my crazy ex and a cute plate

http://tinypic.com/

After uploading, copy the link and past it here. This service is 100% free.

she replies: hey i can't its my mums birthday this weekend so my family and I going to do something ;p

I replied: okk gratz and have fun !

its not the first time that I get something like this back, how do u guys replie and follow up??

The red outlined is indifference. Reply like that and withdraw attention. Maybe wait a week or two before asking her out again. For every rejection add 1 week(e.g: rejects you once, wait one week, second time, wait 2 weeks, 3rd time wait 3 weeks) until you get to 3, once at 3 next. You're spinning plates so this shouldn't be an issue!

 

[apprenticedj]

If she continually responds that she's busy and doesn't offer another date/time you NEXT her. She isn't really interested but she wants to be nice face to face so it won't be awkward. Very rarely will you be shot down in person, especially since she'll be seeing you around the gym. How much rapport (connection) did you build with her at the gym BEFORE asking for the number?

 

[TheGambino]

I was doin some cardio when she came in(Hb8) and went jogging in front of me. I tried to eye contact her but she did her thing and ran.
I quit my cardio and went lifting. When I was training I made eye contact with her I laughed she looked at me without emotion (never had that before) for several seconds, I kept looking at her with a smile until she turned her face off.

10mins later I cold approached her with this line: heyy do you go out here in this area? her: Yes sometimes why? me: Ive spoken to u (in this partic club) once, we had a fun convo that time. her: oohh i dont remember you. so i started a 3-4min convo (i only saw her never approached) building some kino and suggested to do some dead lifts and squats together she agreed.

her parents were there and her brother, next to us when we were squatting.. I convo'd her brother and her and she showed interest by asking me stuff. We went squatting together and she stayed around me. Problem: her mom is a teacher at my old school and I had a lot of beef back then, smoking weed and stuff so she remembered me (old days lol) she was looking at her daughter the whole time and stayed around us. 20mins later her family went to the shower and she stayed around and said byee i g2g I made clear that i wanted to her number and she said ok haha immediatley so I number closed!

and: i found out her sister was in my class years ago, we were good having fun an all that but she knows i was one of the guys that had a lot of beef with my budds (badboy image) so thats negative...

anyway: i texted her 2 hours later: hey undercover in the end (since i number closed without her mother noticing) she replied: haha i dont care if she saw it too.. me: what ur up 2: studying math, boring got an exam friday. me: u think thats worse? my neighboors are 'busy' lol they make noise i hear it true the walls and im trying to sleep, im going downstairs -.-...

she replies: hahahahaha grose! are they old? me: nah in their 20s her: probably celebrating their new home or so haha me: or reinstructing it lmao, anyways go back to your studies. her: oh wait one more question, how do i spell your name? i texted my name ( my name is actually foreign )

after that i texted her the next evening(tonight): hey lets do something fun this weekend, what day ur free?

she replies: hey, i cant this weekend, its my mums birthday monday, so were up to something with the family ;p

I replied: okk gratz and have fun!

thats it apprenticedj

 

[TheGambino]

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[apprenticedj]

Well I'm definitely giving you props for having some balls man. Macking on a honey with her whole family near is tough work, especially with her mom knowing your history. If this is the first time this particular girl replied that she is busy I would hold off on the nexting for a bit.

 

[altec]

That isn't that bad actually.. She at least had a reason, and she asked you how to spell your name.. I wouldn't expect her to offer another day so early on. I hear that a lot, if a girl is "into" you then she will suggest to reschedule but I don't think that younger girls tend to do that.

Leave it for a bit and try again. I wouldn't text back and forth too much (or at all even) except to ask her out.

 

[gravityeyelids]

i mean second time A girl says 'im busy' thats why i figured to ask you guys what do u reply

You Dont.

 

[skinnyguy]

She's "busy" sucking another guy's penis.

How often do you see her?