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2nd date text

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DJs,

Took a new brand out tonight and I'm 50/50 she'll go out with me again. Don't really care either way. But since I did spend a few bucks i want a ROI.

Do any of you have a good text asking out for a second date? Something that gives me the power. Any help would be appreciated.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Ruler said:
Well, first of all, wait at least 2 days before setting this up. Meaning right now, you must wait 48 more hours. The reason for this is to create mystery in her head. When you cut off contact for two days, she will wonder if you really liked her or not, and if indeed she will get that desired second date.

Ok, now, onto the text! Use your gut man, not really sure why you need help setting up a second date. All you have to say is

Quote:
Originally Posted by You
"Hey, Name, I'm free on (day of week) at (time desired for date). Lets go do (this activity, that could be free if you search around the internet and find something interesting, fun, exciting, and FREE / really cheap). Wanna join me?"


obviously leave out the stuff in parenthesis, and replace with the info. . This should be perfect. You can also add your own touch, a bit of witty humor, perhaps? Best thing would be a little inside joke you guys have, if you happened to develop one that quickly.

Good luck!
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that message is 'textbook-PUA' stupid. Send her that and the chance of her telling her she's busy on that particular day is pretty high; you won't know how to handle it and you will end up with no date.

Just text her, have some chitchat just to warm her up, and if she seems receptive etc, tell her:

OP: "blah blah... so I am taking you out to X place (already planned), when are you free this week?"

This way she will tell you when she's free and you can fit her in your schedule.

Simple as that.


P.S.

You dont really have to wait two days in between dates to ask her out. One to hree days is fine.
Girls have so many available guys nowadays that if she's interested and you wait too much, she may just forget about you and go hang out with another guy instead.
 
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