"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2nd date in 18 years and I got stood up.

Konada

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To say I am not feeling like shvt about this would be lying. Oh well you live and learn.

She texted she was going to be late. So I was left enioying my latte alone for 30mins. Got up, text her 'Let's meet up another time then.' She replied and texted her to hit me up in the future if she wanted.

How did I do?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Simp city. What fool takes that disrespect and still wants to mess with the broad. Value yourself as a man and a lot of things will change.
 
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Simp city. What fool takes that disrespect and still wants to mess with the broad. Value yourself as a man and a lot of things will change.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Simp city. What fool takes that disrespect and still wants to mess with the broad. Value yourself as a man and a lot of things will change.
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To say I took disrespect would be wrong here. I was indeed enjoying my cup of coffee, I left when I was finished with it.
 
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What happened to your reminder text!!! Fked up if she says it's still on and didn't turn up. These girls are so disrespectful.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"2nd Date in 18 years"

I read that and thought "Dear God this guy needs immense help"
then I saw that your age was 18 and thought "Dear God this guys needs some help"
 
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Konada said:
To say I took disrespect would be wrong here. I was indeed enjoying my cup of coffee, I left when I was finished with it.
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bottom line you got stood up by a chick n you still texted her immediately to set up another date. you're a sucker for pain and heartache aren't you? why do you give the girl another opportunity to flake on you? you need to be decisive and go NC on the chick till she contacts you to set up another date not the other way round. spin other plates, show her you have other option
 
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ezio said:
bottom line you got stood up by a chick n you still texted her immediately to set up another date. you're a sucker for pain and heartache aren't you? why do you give the girl another opportunity to flake on you? you need to be decisive and go NC on the chick till she contacts you to set up another date not the other way round. spin other plates, show her you have other option
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I left the ball in her court. I'm not contacting her until she ass for another date.
 
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Did she offer any excuse or just didn't show up?

Either way, don't expect her to contact you and set up another date.

To just not show up is the ultimate disrespect.

Delete her number. If she ever texts you, reply "Who is this?
"
 
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Mike32ct said:
Did she offer any excuse or just didn't show up?

Either way, don't expect her to contact you and set up another date.

To just not show up is the ultimate disrespect.

Delete her number. If she ever texts you, reply "Who is this?
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She gave some BS excuse that she will be late. I left after waiting for half an hour.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think you really made a big mistake on texting her.. it just pretty much tells to me you lost a lot of value.

But I think the answer to this dilemma is right there in your finger tips.... pressing the delete button.
 
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Leopold said:
I think you really made a big mistake on texting her.. it just pretty much tells to me you lost a lot of value.

But I think the answer to this dilemma is right there in your finger tips.... pressing the delete button.
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Yup I blew it. Live and learn.
 
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If a girl did that to me I wouldn't even text her, just ignore her and only reply if she contacts you with a very good explanation.
 
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She wasn't going to show either way. There was no reason to send her a text. I'm saying that not for her but for future encounters. When a girl acts disprectful you treat her such. By sending that text you reinfornced that her decision to stand you up was correct and you fed her sense of entitlement, which will make more difficult to handle for the next guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NC = No contact.

You should have gone NC after she didn't show up. Texting her asking her to meet up again sounded really needy. We all live and learn though.

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She wasn't going to show either way.
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Do NOT presuppose this. Do NOT presuppose that she stood you up. In fact, you should presuppose the opposite: that she wanted to show up but didn't due to matters out of her control.

The DJ doesn't expect women to stand him up... he is SURPRISED when she does so, because he is so desirable. If she finds out that your first conclusion was that you stood her up, your value drops.

But the main point is is that the DJ doesn't care if it was a stand-up or a legit reason for absence, because he's got tons of other women going for him and doesn't waste time following up on this issue. You act the same either way: you. don't. care.
 
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I forgot to add in here that she did text me she was going to be late. Hence why I waited for 30mins and went off when my patience ran thin.
 
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