2nd attempt: message vs hangup vs dont call?

[FrankWank]

How many times does a hb actually want you to call her, before she actually returns or answers your call? They just love this bs test crap they put men through

I called her monday to leave a vm on her cell "hey___, its _____, give me a call back, my # is __________"

Its friday and she hasnt returned my call yet. She has till next monday or im deleting her #. Meantime i'll be out tonite pulling more #'s

I "thought" about calling her a 2nd time giving her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe leaving another desperate message, maybe just hanging up or not calling at all?

I've decided to not call at all, and i believe she'll call since im not going to pursue her anymore unless she calls back. Again, its the stupid test they put us through, to see how desperate we are, if we just give up etc..... All cellphones have caller i.d. these days, so there is no excuse to why she didnt get it. Her phone was on ringing 6 times before going to voicemail. I left my name and # so there is no excuse to why.

Why is it better to just move on and not call? what are the advantages as oppossed to another call?

 

[cave dweller]

the call

You called her...........right?

If she don't return your call, to h*ll with her.
If she ever calls you---you are too damn busy to call her.
You can call her back when you get good and damn ready.
Single women like her are a 'dime a dozen'.

-----------------NEXT----------------

cave dweller

 

[lizardfloyd]

forget the b***h. she aint worth your time. you got things to do, like pull more numbers. Let her know that she is'nt the only thing running thru your mind.

 

[Walden]

Call twice , if she doesn't respond she thinks youre a beta male.
From there you have two options either you can txt her and say soemthing like "i'll take thatas a snub then " (have had good results) or wait 2-3 weeks (to show you have a policy of nexting flakes then send a message or call her.

Steve Piccus scholed DJs however wouldn't even bother to call twic e, if a betty doesn't want to play , find four other ones that do...

 

[KiInCollege]

I recommend not leaving messages.

Rules girls won't return the call, and you are forced to be passive waiting for the return call.

 

[JJMcLure]

She won't call you, chicks don't call this early on.

You shouldn't have left a message. Call her again, you have nothing to lose. And don't mention the previous call or ask why she didn't call you back.

To answer your question, the advantage of NEXTing her now is to protect your ego and feel like you're the man. The disadvantage is you lose any chance of getting with the chick.

Check out this thread from the Archive for a good discussion on caller id/voicemail/how many times to call:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18311