"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2m/2f "date" - goan crap test me

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HISTORY:
Let me explain. A female co-worker of mine from an old place text me tonight asking me to go out with her. Now, we used to flirt a fair bit and muck around as well. I've been the receiving end of lines such as, "I love you" "You're great" "I wish I had a bf like you" and a few mistimed kisses from her on behalf of her drunkeness.

I didn't really leave my old job on good terms and didn't say goodbye to anyone. A tiff with management. When I did work there, I relied on being alpha, confident, c+f and self content to get me further. Although I did use some routines and techniques on her, I did not have any intention on dating someone from work. A little policy I had I guess. BUT, I made sure everyone got there fair share of my new persona. You know, to keep the ladies on their toes.

Now we haven't been in contact for about a month, and she texts me out of the blue asking me to go out with her. I guess she is still thinking of me. At first it startled me, I had recently delete a ton of numbers from my mobile. All people who I had no interest in or kept in contact with. I didn't know who it was. So I asked.

She asks me to go out with her and her friend to meet her new bf. What? Is she trying to set me up? With her friend? Oh, she's trying to make me jealous. I don't need sympathy. Now, I know this is a SH*T-TEST of the highest order. I told her I was busy but will make time next week.

DILEMMA:
Throughout the 7 mobile texts she turns from a snob to a snake. Heh, women. First, trying to make me jealous, then being nice and saying she misses me. What a lure! If her intentions are not of the positive nature, trying to put me down, no doubt neg-hits, talk about some "history" (get the bf thinking) and some isolation is in order.

Should I go with them and try to game the friend? - Show her I'm still HOT property. Might back fire. Might not.

Should I just forget it and delete the texts never replying to her? - Weak. Men accept challenges, hence unknowingly fail many crap tests. To pass it gracefully is a true Don Juan. Unless you have a better suggestion.

Should I go and bring a lady friend of mine and leave within 10mins? - Show her up, I'm busy and unavailable.

Should I bring wings with me and run a muck infront of them? - As in, "My friends are better than your friends".

Any other good suggestions? All feedback appreciated.

I've already accepted the sh*t-test, if I hadn't it'll look weak on my behalf. Now how do I pass it with flying colours?

Thanks,
-rBB :up:
 

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He-hey!

No crap, social proof. So no worries about her new "bf" then?

I can see 2 sides to this case.
1) She's trying to make me jealous.
2) She wants to check up on me to compare me to her new bf.

I think the friend is her lure to bring me out.

Either way, it's win-win if I bring my wings. If I return the favour and make her jealous, we'ld leave on bad terms. With my wings, I could game the friend infront her and her bf since it was her idea. If I want to eject, I can say my wings and I are meeting with some people in 20mins. More social proof as my eject.

Good stuff.

If there are any more ideas not brought to the table, throw some up! Appreciated.

rBB
 

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3) Or the other dude is an alpha - Won't hurt to AMOG the crap out of him just to make sure I've got the more better frame.
 
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