"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

28 Year Old Miami Single Dad

Thread starter Miamidad81
Start date Mar 20, 2010

Miamidad81

Don Juan

Mar 20, 2010

Recently have gotten separated. For past 7 years I did the mistake of my only friend being my wife, so I don't have any group of guys to go out with now besides my brother.

Had been with my wife for 7 years so my pick up skills are definitely rusty and lacking, but I'm a quick learner and I have high confidence in my looks, and I am also successful financially.

Send me a PM.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.