28 year old man who has never had a girlfriend

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Urbanyst

Banned

Oct 28, 2017

bigdave17 said:
you guys think it's so easy. I already work 55 hours a week. You add 1 hour commute to that and I'm working 65 hours a week

and no I can't work less, you can't make 140-180K a year at a very young age like me if you're not working 45-60 hours a week

This is the life you chose.

If you want different results you have to do something different. Just make sure you're saving most of that MONEY so it can pay you back later with a much better lifestyle and HOT women.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.