Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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26 year-old chick admits that she is only marrying a 79 year-old silver fox multimillionaire to be "set for good"

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My sister “Nadia” is 26 and planning to marry a 79-year-old man, “Paul,” at the end of June. Paul is loaded (as in, he’s a multimillionaire) and that is the sole reason she is with him. I know this because she has told me so. She also hopes to have a baby with him so she can be “set for good.” I think what she is doing is disgraceful. Paul’s daughter “Wendy” sees right through my sister and feels the same way I do, and we brainstorming ways to make sure the wedding never happens.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Money can help a man date younger. Being older and not rich often means dating women around the same age. That's not often pleasant for men after the 40-50 range.

An older guy with money can enjoy a younger woman. A younger woman can enjoy having money later in life by getting with a much older man on a permanent basis.
 

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Money can help a man date younger. Being older and not rich often means dating women around the same age. That's not often pleasant for men after the 40-50 range.

An older guy with money can enjoy a younger woman. A younger woman can enjoy having money later in life by getting with a much older man on a permanent basis.
But let's emphasize she is only with this dude for his money, probably waiting on him to croak, once he does Tyrone and Chad will be blowing her walls out
 

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But let's emphasize she is only with this dude for his money, probably waiting on him to croak, once he does Tyrone and Chad will be blowing her walls out
They’re going to be doing that while she is married. I made the incredible mistake of using adult friend finder once. It’s entirely post menopausal women with senior men. So they have these videos and zero and I mean none of these men can actually have penetrative sex to finish they’re all stopping and physically stimulating their women to climax. It was bone chilling to think that one day that’s going to be me. Anyway, point is, he’s got arm candy, and he’s got blow jobs for the rest of his life that even if they take 90 minutes, you better believe she’s giving them

As for any relatives, man it sucks being them. I am sure they screwed him over once or twice where he wrote them out. There’s always more than one side.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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But let's emphasize she is only with this dude for his money, probably waiting on him to croak, once he does Tyrone and Chad will be blowing her walls out
for sure. what else does he have to offer, even the very best game is not going to work for him. smart guy, getting what he wants while he can. she probably will take a side bet..., should that stop the guy. i guess he could just wait to die, hehe.
 

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smart guy, getting what he wants while he can.
Why is a multi millionaire limiting himself to sex with just one hoe a smart guy? :rolleyes: I think it's both dumb and pathetic. Kind of like limiting yourself to only eating in your local McDonald's when you have the money and the time to try whatever restaurant you want, in whatever country you want.
 

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Well DUH.

Honestly I have always found this type of thing to be distasteful, as in she might as well be a prostitute because this type thing is THAT transactional.

About 6 years ago I had an extremely wealthy gentleman I met randomly. He had made millions in real estate and I gave him my business card to keep in touch professionally. I liked the way he thought about business and would have appreciated his input on my RE endeavors.

Oh no. The guy wanted to date me. He had been married (and was a widower) to a beautiful Playboy Club hostess from Miami for decades (until her death). I knew he was worth hundreds of millions on dollars. He sent me roses at work and started calling me incessantly at my office (he did not have my personal number). He was I'm sure a debonair man in his youth, probably through middle age. It was flattering in a way but the idea of a guy in his 80s was icky to me. Icky.

My top criteria in a man is sexual desirability, so it was total no fly.

This chick is a complete sell out....But she will be rich for life so there's that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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But she will be rich for life so there's that.
And he gets the ego and status boost of having a young hot wife not to mention a steady stream of blow jobs for life (or at least for a few years until they have a kid). Not my cuppa tea but a win-win for them I suppose.

I'd venture to guess that having the intelligence to achieve such a high level of success and wealth, he knows exactly why she's marrying him. And doesn't care.

Many men lead with their money! I recall one instance of being out with friends, a man who 'appeared' to have money was hitting on me but I wasn't interested.

And as I was leaving, right in the middle of the bar for literally all to hear, he screamed at me -- "You're leaving!!! Do you know how much "green" I have?!!! Your loss!!"

I kid you not! Those were his exact words.

So I dunno let them be I suppose.

Another scientific research found out that water is wet and the sun is quite hot.
Lol so true! :rofl:
 
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Why is a multi millionaire limiting himself to sex with just one hoe a smart guy? :rolleyes: I think it's both dumb and pathetic. Kind of like limiting yourself to only eating in your local McDonald's when you have the money and the time to try whatever restaurant you want, in whatever country you want.
he is doing what he want to do. at that age, it is exactly the right thing. maybe he likes the girl friend treatment. perhaps he should date a very old woman and not have sex, or hire 10 girls to follow him around. if he is getting what he wants, its all good. if he is not happy and ready to make threads here about what to do then your right, not smart.

yea, i get the difference between money sex and lust. what is the chance this guy can happen to be found by a hot young lady that wants him for lust.
 

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