26...never really been a player

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Colossus

Master Don Juan

Dec 12, 2009

jnice48146 said:
Look, you guys are still young as hell! I wasted 10 years of my life in a crappy marriage, that's from 22 to 32, and you know what? F*CK IT! I'm here now to learn, then to apply in the field.You can't hang on to crap from the past, just let it go and get on with your life. The gist of what I've learned is don't worry about getting rejected, its inevitable. Especially in the beginning. So go out and diesel through your growing pains and learn from mistakes, and get yourself comfortable with approaching women. Nothing to lose!

What he said.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.