26...never really been a player

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Colossus

Master Don Juan

Dec 12, 2009

jnice48146 said:
Look, you guys are still young as hell! I wasted 10 years of my life in a crappy marriage, that's from 22 to 32, and you know what? F*CK IT! I'm here now to learn, then to apply in the field.You can't hang on to crap from the past, just let it go and get on with your life. The gist of what I've learned is don't worry about getting rejected, its inevitable. Especially in the beginning. So go out and diesel through your growing pains and learn from mistakes, and get yourself comfortable with approaching women. Nothing to lose!

What he said.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.