"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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25 Years Old... Stay with my Long Distance 23 y/o.. Or play along with this 19 y/o?

FloridaLurker

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I moved out of the country to study medicine and left my gf there.. 98% of my classmates are 18-19 years old.

My current GF is pretty damn sexy, but shes got a pretty faulty personality. Always lying, getting physical with fights, never having an upbeat attitude and the such.

Now my dilemma is, should I continue long distance with my current GF who says she will move to this country with me in a couple months... And hope her psychologist fixes her? Or should I keep flirting and getting to know this 19 year old latin chick... whos cute but isnt nearly as sexy as my current gf whos asian?

Only thing holding me on to my current gf is she can be sweet when she wants to be, and her physical appearance is everything I ever wanted in a girl.

I know looks isnt everything, obviously, but at 25 years old is 19 y/o too immature for a relationship? These people are going to be my classmates for 7 years, but they are fresh out of high school at the moment..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well I would say stick with the Asian but since she is 23 than maybe you should go with the Latina who is 19 unless you meet an Indian who is 22, because that would be the ultimate integer of success. None of this applies if YOU yourself are arabic and under the age of 24.

... :confused:


What's up with all this age information and racial information?

What's that got to do with anything?

Do you have all of this information on a spreadsheet or something.
 

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FloridaLurker said:
I moved out of the country to study medicine and left my gf there.. 98% of my classmates are 18-19 years old.
Long distance relationships are NOT relationships. Do you really want to lock up your balls for this broad? You may say yes, but that's you're vagina speaking. What's that ? You don't have a vagina? Mate, you'd better check...

even more so after this:
My current GF is pretty damn sexy, but shes got a pretty faulty personality. Always lying, getting physical with fights, never having an upbeat attitude and the such.
You brought that into a relationship? She should be a fvck buddy. AT BEST.

And hope her psychologist fixes her?
And waste years of your life waiting? Not that it matters, there's a 99% chance there is nothing wrong with her, and she's just a spoiled brat.
 

Paintballguy

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Long term relationships are just retarded because they don't work. How is it possible to have a relationship with someone who doesn't live near you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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taiyuu_otoko

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lose your current gf, and don't mess with any girls in your class. They'll be plenty of pu$$y, any age, any race, once your a doc.

fool around with girls wherever you are OUTSIDE of class. The ones in class are too dangerous, and there is a too high a chance of whatever happening coming back to bite you.

Worst case scenario:

You hook up with this cute but non-sexy latina, she stays with you all through med school, you get married, become a doctor, suddenly to find you are surrounded by willing pu$$y yet married to a not-so-slim latina, until Tiger Woods syndrome kicks in, and then your fukked, and all the nurses hate you at your hospital because you are a cad who cheats on his loving and devoted wife.

No money, no pu$$y, no fun.

Stay cool, have fun, but the only thing you should be committed to is finishing school and making some serious coin. Pu$$y will come later as a natural byproduct.

But I feel for you. Once I dated this vietnamese girl that had the tightest, sexiest body I ever had the pleasure of laying next to, as well as absolutely loving sex, but she was not quite the picture of emotional stability. Lucky for me she was engaged to another guy, so I had a built-in out.

Be careful of the power of pu$$y, if you're not careful, it will eat you alive and leaving you like Jesse James, the most hated man in America.

Read backbrakers post about "Flannel Pajamas" titled "The Most Depressing Movie I've Ever Seen."
 
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