25 years old mulsim single mom

[pyros]

I met this 25 years old chick, HB7.4, mulsim, one month ago during my salsa lessons. Right off the bat we seemed to like each other.

I added her on FB, she offered her number, etc.
We went on a date. I went to pick her up (she lives in a village 40 mins away, and doesnt have a car), we had a drink and later on I went for a kiss in my car. She just gave me a little kiss and said: "hehehehe, we barely know each other yet! hehe"
and then she dropped the bomb: "You know I have kids, dont you?"
I got kind of shocked, but I acted normal, I said that was not a problem for me.
She was forced to marry at 16, and got divorced at 22.

A female friend of her was suposed to come to pick her up but she texted her cause she was running late and it was gonna take 1.5 hours more to come pick her up, so I had to extend the date because I did not want to leave her alone waiting.
She asked me several weird questions like:
are you seing other girls now?
are you meeting another girl tonight?
what do you think about having several wives? (tradition for muslim men)
did you like to spend time with me?
do you want to be just my friend or...?

Besides, she told me that she was 'getting to know' three more guys now besides me (what THE HECK?? why does she tell me this?)
Since we ended up spending 4 hours together, she said that she would have prefered to spend more time (???).
A the end of the date she gave me one small kiss (I did not go for it, she did).

Now, the next day she texted me, and so she did the following day, and asked me why I hadn't texted her yet.
The problem is that she is a single mom with THREE KIDS. Its just hard to believe since she is 25, nice body and very nice face.
I think she's looking for something serious and I just want to bang her so...
how do I proceed? I just thought about letting things flow, have fun with her etc, and escalate till sex...but she may get angry when she realises I dont want anything serious...

Similar experiences? tips?
Thx.

 

[n52]

sounds like too much shiet to get involved with. i'd be so past all of that. everyone has their own problems but they keep it to themselves, especially this early on, clearly she doesn't.

 

[RomanticWolf]

Don't get involved with this one. She'll probably cut your balls off if you do a bang and disappear. Do NOT mess with muslim girls. In fact, don't sleep with anyone who has kids and wants to get serious. That's just mean lol.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

OP, give her credit for filling you in on the details and telling it to you straight. She did wait until the end of the date to tell you about the kids though.... oh well.

If she's 26, good looking, but has three kids.... Personally, I'd tell her I was dating other people and not looking for anything serious.. Leave the ball in her court....if she wants to continue on with a mostly physical relationship, single moms need lovin too, then I'd go ahead with it. She could be hinting that to you as well, considering she mentioned she's dating other people. Then just steer the dates away from situations where you would have to interact with the kids. However, if she's treating you as someone just to have fun with (bang), then she probably won't introduce you to them anyway.

I'd go for the Fvck buddy here...

 

[VladPatton]

That chick sounds like the bomb! lol

Sorry, had to say it.

Don't get involved.