25 year old virgin

[knglerxt]

Are there any other members here who are at least 25 and still a virgin? If so, how do you deal with seeing couples everywhere you go and knowing that most other guys your age are sexually active? This really makes me bitter and angry. Don't get me wrong. I'm not angry at other people, just at the fact that I have needs and desires like everybody else, yet I'm deprived.

 

[synergy1]

replace the word virgin with someone who hasn't been sexually active in the past 6+ months, and I feel the same way sometimes. But as you said, not angry at other people, but more or less disappointed in ones self. eh what can ya do

 

[Mental]

Are there any other members here who are at least 25 and still a virgin? If so, how do you deal with seeing couples everywhere you go and knowing that most other guys your age are sexually active? This really makes me bitter and angry. Don't get me wrong. I'm not angry at other people, just at the fact that I have needs and desires like everybody else, yet I'm deprived.

The sex part doesn't really bother me much. Who knows who is running around with whatever? Frankly, I'm quite happy being able to pee without painful sores flaking off. I don't my wang turning green, if I can avoid it.

Besides, I'm fairly picky.

What bugs me is all the happy couples and the snuggly stuff. Ugh. Yeah, I need me some passion, too! But after the holidays, I'll be ok. Right now it's tough being single during the holidays, but... I do what I can not to sweat it.

And then I also remember a chick calling me EVERY SINGLE DAY near Thanksgiving, and how creepy that was. She was alright looking, but the chick just didn't have a clue about boundaries. I have to be glad knowing I didn't do a thing with that chick, or we would have some MORE serious freaky weird stuff going on. I could end up with a freakin hatchet in my back or something. ::Shudder::

 

[azanon]

So has this site not helped you guys any? I just hate hearing the bad news, but having nothing to go on to be of any help.

 

[Chosen1]

Are there any other members here who are at least 25 and still a virgin? If so, how do you deal with seeing couples everywhere you go and knowing that most other guys your age are sexually active? This really makes me bitter and angry. Don't get me wrong. I'm not angry at other people, just at the fact that I have needs and desires like everybody else, yet I'm deprived.

I'm getting there I'm 21 and still a virgin my sister lost hers my brother lost his. I'm all alone. Then I get people talking saying my little brother who is 9 will lose his virginity before me. I know my mom and sister talk about me (or maybe I'm being paranoid) behind my back. But you know what I'm happy. There's this couple (young) they come to our house argue and all that. I almost thought about hitting on the guys girl. Then I regained my composure (she's fat). I'm not going to force myself into any relationship I don't care how desperate I am. I'm only going for the intelligent hard to get ones. Yes, it is a little dishearting to see other people with someone. To this day I still wonder if something is wrong with me. There is a condition called love shyness I learned about maybe that is you or me. I don't know all I know is I'm not going to be a virgin by 22.

 

[Chosen1]

So has this site not helped you guys any? I just hate hearing the bad news, but having nothing to go on to be of any help.

actually this site has helped me. I think is fact that I don't care about other people like I use to. I use to shut up if someone was mean to me or yelled at me. (not that I'm a wimp, I'm huge) Now I speak up. If something pisses me off. I'm still shy but I don't let anyone talk down to me. I know believe I have a little bit more power over my life. If I go out an get killed in an accident, that I don't have control over. Me being successful and getting chicks that I believe I have control over. I don't if it is this site or just myself. Then there are things I haven't approved on. I can talk to any women I still get scared but I can do it. Then there is the matter of confidence just because I can talk to someone doesnt' mean I'm confident enough to get there numbers (even though I have). Then there is the art of attraction, I don't how to build attraction. This site is good on some things bad on others. On approaching and talking to women this website is top notch. On confidence not so much.

 

[lookyoung]

Not to be mean or anything but your 25 and still a virgin how is that possible, and chosen one u also.... Why don't u guys go screw a couple of hb 1-3 and then later when your more experienced both of u guys can move on to bigger and better things.

The ugly girls will at least teach u how to talk to girls and get your confidence going. ONce u guys get your first piece than u guys are going to get much play..... I

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I'm a 30 y/o 'nutty virgin' on here. The reason I'd define myself as a nutty virgin is because of a thread I posted about an online adult internet ad that was that was running in November for the exact purpose of losing my virginity, but where I failed its own premise by 'not being ready' and left prospects hanging that I was supposed to meet.

Now, a new 'bashful' ideology is in place where I dont disclose to anyone I'm a virgin that I meet or would downplay sexuality for at least the first five dates, where I would sort of be shy or coy about it, focusing more on getting to know the person or compatability or chemistry issues rather than thinking about sex. I think getting to know a person at this time is better than trying to get off on someone, which would happen anyway if you knew someone long enough and wanted to take that step.

You can use the search feature to look at of "Luke Skywalker" threads, and read through the one that says my adult online personal ad, or something like that, and read through it. It chronicals my adventures to find an anonymous sex hookup on adultfriendfinder with the purpose of losing my virginity on the first date with a complete stranger, which almost occurred at the end of last month.

 

[knglerxt]

Not to be mean or anything but your 25 and still a virgin how is that possible, and chosen one u also.... Why don't u guys go screw a couple of hb 1-3 and then later when your more experienced both of u guys can move on to bigger and better things.

The ugly girls will at least teach u how to talk to girls and get your confidence going. ONce u guys get your first piece than u guys are going to get much play..... I

I think the main reason is because I've always been introverted and quiet. Unfortunately, that makes it almost impossible to meet women.

As for your second question, I don't want a HB 1-3.