“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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23 yearold chinese girl

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yeah i have no life, i know. but anyway is this girl for real? either shes fake, or a little crazy. opinions.

made a post about her before. Shes a senior in college. met her on chatroulette ( i know ridiculous) ended up talking to her on skype, my internet shut off so she bought a 5,000 minutes on Skype just to call me. Seems to really listen to what I say . my life has crashed in the last few years, substance abuse, been sober for a good amount of time and now im making progress to fixing the mess I created. Im very open with what has happened in my life with her. she really really listens to what I say, very reflective listener at times.

1 says she loves me very quickly wants me to say it back, wants commitment pushes for it, i only say that i think shes a nice person and i find her interested. I am pretty straight up with her, to an extent. I said that this is odd, how can she say it if she barely knows me.

3 gets a little offended if i show doubt about how serious she is in what she says. i dont apologize for anything, im not mean but i say you just have to accept that she hasnt proven her self enough for me to trust everything she says

4 offered at one point it send me money, i denied, later i said if she wants to help me she can, ended up not being able to send the money, which i was ok with. she almost did it. I bet if i tried i could get her to, but nah.

5 says things like she sacrafices her time to talk to me, however she loves my attention

6 complains i dont email her enough, or they are to short, usually they are short.

7 she went through a period in her childhood, her dad worked in another region, as did her mom, her grandmother kind of booted her out around the age of 6 because she didnt like the fact they had a girl, she hopped from relative to relative eventually ended up with a rich aunt and her cousin was mean to her, eventually her mom hear about this, quit her job and took care of her

8 other kids would tease her for being so poor, she lived in a 30 square meter room for a few years, basically poor as ****.

9 now her parents are together, seems like her parents have a good relationship, her mom seems like a very good mom. Relationship between her parents is healthy, her dad is the dominate one.

10 she had sex once and once her cherry started to pop she wanted to stop, and has not had sex since then and its been three years, shes been fingered before, but seems to be a prude, or Chinese guys are mostly betas

11 always tells me she misses me, she wants to talk to me every day, she seems a bit obessed about me, yeah i know she is a bit crazy, and ive told her she is crazy many times. I pretty much can say what ever I want.

12 doesn't talk much about her first boyfriend, 2nd boy friend i think was cheating on her maybe she has a little resent for him still, her 3rd boyfriend was a super beta who cared way more about her than she did him, she ended up leaving him, he threatened to jump off a bridge and cause a big commotion. she was about 19 or 20 at the time, and even admitted to me she felt guilty because of the way she treated him, but she did not want to stay with him because she felt bad for him. He would always take her places, buy her things i think he was kind of punished for what her 2nd boyfriend did. I even told her this, i really tell her about a few things ive learned here and she actually kind of gets it.

she can act a little demanding and indirectly a tiny bit jealous over nothing, and she seems to be obsessed with me, wants to know all about me, doesn't judge me at all, is very curious about why me and my ex broke up. She seems to really genuinely care about me, or at least loves my attention, i think she doesnt even know her own intentions. She likes to watch korean soaps and talk about true love bla bla, i basically said her idea of true love is unrealistic.

She eventually sent me several pictures of her tits, but was very shy about me asking this at first.

I am a pretty good looking wasp, and i think she has a thing for Caucasians. Really i dont have a lot going on lately, not many people in my life, lost a job a few weeks ago, im bored as **** and it enjoy talking her. She seems a bit direct about how she wants to be my girlfriend, wants to come visit me. Shes not very materialistic, her life has mostly consisted of school her entire life. Im pretty open about what i think of her to an extent, she gets a little offended when i doubt her. Ask any more questions if you like. been talking to her for about a month on the 11th, i dont keep count but she will always remind me.


I dont really have a social circle right now, ive been afc mode for a while, but once the ball gets rolling and my life is better ill be good. her desire for me and the fact that she seems to really care is good.

Likes to talk about sex with me, says in china she never really talk about sex to anyone. seems like a naive girl.

always wants to spend her free time talking to me. I feel like im a drug to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well, good if you can have nice conversations together. But you have to keep this at arm's length. She is into you because she is dreaming. This can only lead to frustration and too much time being spent on something that can't lead anywhere. You are the man here, you have to be the one to keep some distance for her own good, and yours. This poor girl doesn't know this, few do when they first discover online friendships and online crushes. It is a rude awakening.

It is possible to have a good time just talking to someone on the internet. But you have to be the one to keep the distance. And you should actually tell her that she shouldn't be dreaming about you, because unfortunately you are too far away from each other.

About Chinese guys; in the small towns and villages out west, they often treat women terribly. Communicate by giving them orders, pretty much. The girls all want to move to the big coastal cities because of that. In the colleges in the coastal cities, on the other hand, most guys spend their free time playing online games. It's part of that East Asian trait to obsess over things. Feudal lords, communism, Starcraft....

Korean soaps, yes, those are big in Asia. Big in Japan, China, Vietnam, Thailand, the Philippines. Funny that. Also Korean bands. Hey, ask her if she has seen the Gwiyomi song. (Look it up on YouTube, it's a cutsie-cutsie song that Asian girls like to make their own videos to ad nauseam. But as you probably know you can't show her any YouTube videos, since YouTube is banned by the Great Chinese (fire)Wall. They have their own video sharing in China.)
 

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Wolfgang. I have told her many times, that i think she is very nice, and a great person but the only problem is the distance. Honestly im at a point where i question everything in life. I doubted her all the time. Well last night I was talking to her, and i find she lied about her past. Now I really dont care about her past, unless it is some crazy ****, but she said she tried having sex with her first bf and it didnt work out, now she tells me there was a 4th bf and has sex all the time.

I dont care about her past, its the fact she lied. she also admitted that she read my ex gfs entire renren ( like facebook) the girl i lived with for two years. She said that she has a hacker friend who created a renren account, and is able to see my ex's page. I was like wtf. When she started to ask more and more about my ex, i said dont worry about that, its unhealthy for you to look at it.

she even downloaded pictures of me and my ex, which i guess my ex kept on her page.... idk why she left me because I was a jerk, and a drunk, pill popper.

she also admitted that she met other americans and would chat with them alot, which i dont care about, but i had asked her and she lied. She has trouble making the connection that its not what she did in the past, its that she lied about it, so what else did she lie about.

I would ask her if she always be honest with me before, and she would always be like, why you doubt me? it makes me sad, disappointed, she would guilt trip me. But she finally admitted to theses things. Now I dont trust her. The solution is i should go nc, but ive been talking to her , alot for almost a month.

At one point when telling her about my ex gf, I said well you have never had a real relationship if you never had sex regularly.

feels like she kind of played me, but also likes me.

Honestly im lonely in my life and very bored, so i got emotionally attached. so afc i know, but i have no money no car, and a ****ty apartment, i could spin plates but it would be fat girls, or drug addicts.

I just dont know now.

look the last year ive not been so good mentally, lots of anxiety, depression. Eventually i will snap out of it. But my gut in this ****ed up state of mind tells me she just wants some romantic emotional relationship, like fullfill her little fantasy.

She would seem very irritated, when I say lets not put a label on things, even though i felt a deep feeling for her, because im afc right now. Always pushing the, can you be my bf.

I feel like if i make any level of commitment, which i wont, that she would just use it to make herslef feel more secure, and never follow through with her words.
 
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