She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
so 40 passed since i made this thread and im experiencing ever more hairloss.I started to see some hair fall out at 30. I started to take Biotin and a topical finasteride/minoxidil solution for my hair. Took a few months, but alls fine 10 + years later. You can get this online or go to your dermatologist for the topical finasteride/minoxidil solution. If you do not treat it sooner than later, you will end up with bald spots and thinning hair. Handle it now and it may not be an issue later. However, you need to use the topical finasteride/minoxidil solution at least once a day. Since I use it like styling gel, never an issue.
As for diet. Increase fruits, veggies, nuts, meats, eggs, chicken and wild seafood (not that farmed crap). Stay away from candy, sugar, breads, alcohol, and processed foods.
so 40 passed since i made this thread and im experiencing ever more hairloss.
i did read about biotin - seems you were deficient in it- what signs of biotin deficiency except hairloss did u experience?
that thing "topical finasteride/minoxidil" not sure what is it but it costs 40 usd >.> im gonna try with biotin alone for now - do you think that will do the job?
idk i get it from either stress or DHT that is in testosterone hormone BUT i never would suspect having big levels of testosterone
My mates a body builder running all kinds of gear. Anadrol, test, d vol, etc. It's pretty evident that he's experienced hair loss or thinning. As in, follicles are falling out. Follicles are thinning.Althrough got plenty of hair, now when i wash it, i just grab my hard softly and i pull gently and some r left on my hands.
I never experienced this before.
Diet problems?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can just take coconut oil orally and it does the same thing, just less greasy. Finasteride is FDA approved for MPB. In addition, the topical solution does not get absorbed by the blood.Man,
I apply coconut oil everynight in my head. This saved my hair. I don't know why exactly. Aparently there are studies linking coconut oil to DHT. I don't know, all I know is it works.
I decided to try based on some stuff I read on the internet. I did not believe it, but gave it a try. This thing started working within 1 or 2 weeks. Its been 4 months now and my hair keeps getting better and better. My bald spot with no hair now has like 70% hair and the hair in rest of the head is stronger and thicker.
I don't know about long term, but I am pretty happy with my hair regrowth from coconut oil. I will soon try other natural oils too.
Edit: Do your research on post finasteride syndrome before consider taking it. My opinion? It's poison. It's like playing Russian Roulette with your d1ck.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's only with the oral route, not the topical. Since it doesn't go into the bloodstream, it's not absorbed into the body, just the follicle. I'm over 40 and have rock hard erections and can go several times in an hour. Not had any side effects on the finasteride oral route, and I've been on it for over a decade.Thanks for the tip.
Yes, finasteride is a FDA approved drug. And, best of all, it works. I has been proven to work. The problem with this, in my opinion, is the astonishing amount of reports of the so called "post finasteride syndrome". I prefer to stay away from it because as I said it's like Russian Roulette with your d1ck. I would rather lose all my hair than have the POSSIBILITY of those fckd up side effects.
Thats good to know. Since coconut oil is working i will stick to it. But that might be a safe option for OP.That's only with the oral route, not the topical. Since it doesn't go into the bloodstream, it's not absorbed into the body, just the follicle. I'm over 40 and have rock hard erections and can go several times in an hour. Not had any side effects on the finasteride oral route, and I've been on it for over a decade.
Doubt itStick with what I suggested. It works for me and millions of other men. Or play games with the natural approach and lose more hair @ 23.
Can you elaborate more?You should go to the doctor and have your thyroid checked and blood drawn.
Had a buddy loose his hair because of a thyroid problem that was curable.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.