Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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22 year old says i'm too young?

youngmack

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How do i go about gaming her? I've never been met with something like this...She said i was cute and would constantly stare at me in class, so i apporached her and started convo with her. Found out she was 22 and when i told her i was 18, she said i was a baby and started laughing. Still got her number though.

Now i'm trying to flirt through text and she reiterate again that i was baby...What are some ****y/funny comebacks i can use ?

My plan is to tell her to go on a date with me, but i need to get past this age barrier
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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youngmack

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Update: she says guys her age and older is just a preference... Any way around this? or is this just a lost cause
 

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Just ignore and be very confident.. Tell her to meet up with u then plow her like an old man would ;)
 

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There is no barrier. Take it as a sh!t test. She's trying to belittle you to see how you react. So, don't react. Its a game of one-up, so come up with something witty about her age. If you ignore her, she'll keep calling you a baby. The only way out is to beat her at her own game.
 

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I agree with Eph. Just say "Hey! What can I say??? I like MILFS!" or "I just love older women like you!"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Next. No point wasting time and energy on low interest girls.
 

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When I was 18, I slept with a 23/24 year old, age ain't nothing but a number buddy.
 

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LeonSK said:
Next. No point wasting time and energy on low interest girls.
I always laugh when I read replies like these.

There is ALWAYS a reason to move on but if someone did that every time they wouldn't f*ck anybody. Think outside the box...I always tease girls who show low interest because that's usually the reason for it in the first place.
youngmack said:
What are some ****y/funny comebacks i can use ?
It's actually quite easy. ****y/funny is essentially flirting and flirting is essentially teasing. The reality is it's not much different to when we were kids.

Tease her with ageist jokes.

Ask her whether she has any kids.

Tell her she reminds you of your mom/mum.

If she shows a bit of skin tell her she's dressing inappropriately for her age.

Warn her she's only got a couple of years until she becomes "invisible" (something many old women claim they experience as they age).

It's not hard.
 

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3agle 3yes said:
It's actually quite easy. ****y/funny is essentially flirting and flirting is essentially teasing. The reality is it's not much different to when we were kids.

Tease her with ageist jokes.

Ask her whether she has any kids.

Tell her she reminds you of your mom/mum.

If she shows a bit of skin tell her she's dressing inappropriately for her age.

Warn her she's only got a couple of years until she becomes "invisible" (something many old women claim they experience as they age).

It's not hard.
Just say "Hey! What can I say??? I like MILFS!" or "I just love older women like you!"
These are excellent examples of good comebacks. Just don't ignore, and don't go ghost on her just yet. Also, if she (ever) does this to you in front of her friends, make damn sure she doesn't "win" this game she's playing.
 

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I'd play this by trying to get her to "corrupt" me. Invite her to a bar and make her buy you drinks and sneak them to you, smoke cigarettes, etc. Make sure you're PLAYFUL.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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