"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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22 year old says i'm too young?

youngmack

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How do i go about gaming her? I've never been met with something like this...She said i was cute and would constantly stare at me in class, so i apporached her and started convo with her. Found out she was 22 and when i told her i was 18, she said i was a baby and started laughing. Still got her number though.

Now i'm trying to flirt through text and she reiterate again that i was baby...What are some ****y/funny comebacks i can use ?

My plan is to tell her to go on a date with me, but i need to get past this age barrier
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Update: she says guys her age and older is just a preference... Any way around this? or is this just a lost cause
 

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Just ignore and be very confident.. Tell her to meet up with u then plow her like an old man would ;)
 

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There is no barrier. Take it as a sh!t test. She's trying to belittle you to see how you react. So, don't react. Its a game of one-up, so come up with something witty about her age. If you ignore her, she'll keep calling you a baby. The only way out is to beat her at her own game.
 

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I agree with Eph. Just say "Hey! What can I say??? I like MILFS!" or "I just love older women like you!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Next. No point wasting time and energy on low interest girls.
 

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When I was 18, I slept with a 23/24 year old, age ain't nothing but a number buddy.
 

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LeonSK said:
Next. No point wasting time and energy on low interest girls.
I always laugh when I read replies like these.

There is ALWAYS a reason to move on but if someone did that every time they wouldn't f*ck anybody. Think outside the box...I always tease girls who show low interest because that's usually the reason for it in the first place.
youngmack said:
What are some ****y/funny comebacks i can use ?
It's actually quite easy. ****y/funny is essentially flirting and flirting is essentially teasing. The reality is it's not much different to when we were kids.

Tease her with ageist jokes.

Ask her whether she has any kids.

Tell her she reminds you of your mom/mum.

If she shows a bit of skin tell her she's dressing inappropriately for her age.

Warn her she's only got a couple of years until she becomes "invisible" (something many old women claim they experience as they age).

It's not hard.
 

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3agle 3yes said:
It's actually quite easy. ****y/funny is essentially flirting and flirting is essentially teasing. The reality is it's not much different to when we were kids.

Tease her with ageist jokes.

Ask her whether she has any kids.

Tell her she reminds you of your mom/mum.

If she shows a bit of skin tell her she's dressing inappropriately for her age.

Warn her she's only got a couple of years until she becomes "invisible" (something many old women claim they experience as they age).

It's not hard.
Just say "Hey! What can I say??? I like MILFS!" or "I just love older women like you!"
These are excellent examples of good comebacks. Just don't ignore, and don't go ghost on her just yet. Also, if she (ever) does this to you in front of her friends, make damn sure she doesn't "win" this game she's playing.
 

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I'd play this by trying to get her to "corrupt" me. Invite her to a bar and make her buy you drinks and sneak them to you, smoke cigarettes, etc. Make sure you're PLAYFUL.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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