"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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22 year old girl for 19 year old bloke?

lordson

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right, ive met this 22 year old girl twice before, and we had a nice freindly casual conversatoin on teh second occasion

and i reckon i would be happy with this girl, but i got to get to like me to

so hows this sound: "hey Wanda, I don't want it to be another week before I talk to you again, can I call you sometime?"

sure i could just ask for her number any old way, but i want to get my intentions accross, yall know how easy it is to get anybodys number these days, just ask and theyll give it to you, not like in the good old days

so, do you think shell get the hint? and more importantly do you think a 22 year old girl will ever go out with a 19 year old guy?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lebRambo

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first of all, 3 years is nothing dude. the age thing isn't your concern. your concern is getting her interested.

What is suggest is inviting over to your place to watch a movie (if you thik she'll go for it) or out for a coffee. Ask her this BEFORE the number, and when she agrees then ask for her number. This way, she can't misconstrue the offer as some friend thing. :)
 

Mastea

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My girlfriend is 21 years old and I'm 19. No problems here; except for the jealousy thing I've explained in another topic.

Well, your starting attitude is not the best, however. Just don't care, and if she says something about the issue, tell her that it's the IQ that makes the difference.
 

Uncle Matt

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i've found that dating older women works for me. but then everyone is different.

i think i act and look older than i am so older women suite me. i also scare the sh** out of younger girls so you know......
 

Wiesman44

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First of all, u dont want to date her.....her name is Wanda.....ALL Wanda's are ugly.....lol


Second of all, most women are predisposed to want to date older guys b/c they are more mature. It doesnt matter if u really are more mature, they usually don't let themselves get attached / get interested. I know plenty of women like this.

Besides, the 19 and 21 age difference is huge. She will like to go to bars / clubs. YOu cant and u drag her down.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Black_Italian

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In Australia were lucky were adults at 18 so we can go clubbing, bars ect ect. Anyway i am currently macking a 24 year old and im 19.

She is into me. So yeh a 22 year old will go for you man as long as you play your cars right.

Ninja out
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
First of all, u dont want to date her.....her name is Wanda.....ALL Wanda's are ugly.....lol


You haven't seen Doogie Howser
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