"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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22 year old girl for 19 year old bloke?

lordson

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right, ive met this 22 year old girl twice before, and we had a nice freindly casual conversatoin on teh second occasion

and i reckon i would be happy with this girl, but i got to get to like me to

so hows this sound: "hey Wanda, I don't want it to be another week before I talk to you again, can I call you sometime?"

sure i could just ask for her number any old way, but i want to get my intentions accross, yall know how easy it is to get anybodys number these days, just ask and theyll give it to you, not like in the good old days

so, do you think shell get the hint? and more importantly do you think a 22 year old girl will ever go out with a 19 year old guy?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lebRambo

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first of all, 3 years is nothing dude. the age thing isn't your concern. your concern is getting her interested.

What is suggest is inviting over to your place to watch a movie (if you thik she'll go for it) or out for a coffee. Ask her this BEFORE the number, and when she agrees then ask for her number. This way, she can't misconstrue the offer as some friend thing. :)
 

Mastea

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My girlfriend is 21 years old and I'm 19. No problems here; except for the jealousy thing I've explained in another topic.

Well, your starting attitude is not the best, however. Just don't care, and if she says something about the issue, tell her that it's the IQ that makes the difference.
 

Uncle Matt

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i've found that dating older women works for me. but then everyone is different.

i think i act and look older than i am so older women suite me. i also scare the sh** out of younger girls so you know......
 

Wiesman44

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First of all, u dont want to date her.....her name is Wanda.....ALL Wanda's are ugly.....lol


Second of all, most women are predisposed to want to date older guys b/c they are more mature. It doesnt matter if u really are more mature, they usually don't let themselves get attached / get interested. I know plenty of women like this.

Besides, the 19 and 21 age difference is huge. She will like to go to bars / clubs. YOu cant and u drag her down.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Black_Italian

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In Australia were lucky were adults at 18 so we can go clubbing, bars ect ect. Anyway i am currently macking a 24 year old and im 19.

She is into me. So yeh a 22 year old will go for you man as long as you play your cars right.

Ninja out
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
First of all, u dont want to date her.....her name is Wanda.....ALL Wanda's are ugly.....lol


You haven't seen Doogie Howser
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