22 not 25 but I think I'll find answers for this in this thread rather than another

[cervantesscthree]

I've been about the game since I was young, and making new male friends (when most new people one meets are raw beta) is becoming very difficult. I socialise with them then something occurs where I feel the need to tell them this stuff and things turn sour from there. 9 times out of 10 they attempt to ridicule me about my views afterwards. Either that, or they're beta behaviour starts to become too annoying to bear. Many of the friends I grew up with (not all) I no longer speak to that often because they're lost in the chase for fanny or spend more time with their beta friends that I don't fit in with, no matter how hard I try to.

For years I've tried to keep communication open with many friends, but they never attempt to stay in contact with me so in the end I give up. When we were younger (up to 18) we were tight but since college has ended ppl have created new circles with ppl that are very AFC, and reflect their own personalities more.

Is this just me, or has anyone else noticed this happen once they began to understand game and so on?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Mod Note:

Rules are rules. MM forum is for 25 and older only.

Thread moved to DJ Discussion.

 

[sodbuster]

Happens ALL the time. You outgrow your friends and need new ones. When you find them, lead by example. IF you are dating better than they do... if they ask, then tell. You've heard the old saying,"you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink?".... Well you CAN make him drink IF you salt his oats...

 

[cervantesscthree]

Well you CAN make him drink IF you salt his oats...

Hahaha thanks for the advice