"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some chick that I think is cute asked me out in the cafeteria tonight. I have only talked to her briefly a few times (in the cafeteria) and I approached her again tonight. Since we have not really had any long conversations, I figured I would not ask her out this time, but next time. As I was walking away, she called me back over and said..."Maybe we should go out sometime"

I am glad she asked and will go out with her, but I feel like such a Pu$$y that she beat me to it.

How many of you have had a girl ask them out?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have several times, but always by women I don't find attractive who I flirted with anyway. I don't hesitate to close with women I find attractive, so they don't get a chance to ask me out :D
 
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you are so dam lucky to have a chick ask you out. I envy you. dam !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Reminds me of something that happened to my business partner a few days ago.

He was shopping for some things for his new place, and was being helped by a couple of people, one guy and one girl. He thought the girl was cute and was planning on going back in to ask her out.

Turns out her coworker (the guy) actually called him a few days later and told him the chick wanted him to give my biz partner her number.

Long story short- he thought it was in the bag since she seemed so interested, but she ended up blowing him off. Could it be because SHE had to take too much initiative in the beginning? Could be.....
 
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mahon83050 said:
How many of you have had a girl ask them out?
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NEVER

Actually i had a gurl ask me to merry her once, but she was a hooker with two kids........so we have a puirty good life now (<----my poor atempt at a joke)
 
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All the time. Well, not really, but yeah, I do get asked out. I also get women to yell out profane words as I'm walking down the street. Their profane words are directed towards my sexy body. ;)
 
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mahon83050 said:
How many of you have had a girl ask them out?
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About 5 times in 19 years. Pretty weak but they were actually girls I didn't feel attracted to because of their initial high interest.
 
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