Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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21 y/o gaming a 31 y/o on vacation

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So I'm in Hawaii with my parents. I see two HBs on the beach and I open one of them in the water, teasing her about diving in.

Fast forward 2 hours, we are having drinks and smiling and laughing while enjoying the awesome sun.

One of them is 25 and the other is 31. Surprisingly, the older one is more attractive and has been giving IOIs nonstop. We are talking and she comments about my experience being so young. I reply with "I may be young, but I am definitely not inexperienced." :yes: That made her laugh and look down. We made plans to go "pre-game" the fireworks tonight and kick it (got the #). I get up to leave and the 31 y/o goes "You're leaving?" "Yes" "But its only 3 o clock!!"....talk about an IOI.

Now my question is: are there anythings I should take into account before I escalate (...my heart is racing just thinking out it). I haven't really done any kino, but this is because I have never even thought of gaming someone this old.

Any tips? Just looking for some last minute advice/confidence because lately my game hasn't been up to par.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's the same game except her hoohah is less tight ;)
 

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Don't be intimdated by her age. Women in their low 30s are the easiest to pull especially if you are younger. Plus you're on vacation. Dude you have a golden setup. Don't F it up.

Is there a bar or lounge at or close to your hotel? At you hotel is much preferred.

Invite her there for a drink in the evening. Have a couple drinks, do some light kino, and invite her upstairs to either "relax and watch some tv" or "check out the amazing view of the ocean" (if applicable).

Then take her hand and confidently walk towards the elevator up to your room. If you make it to the elevator, IT'S SO ON it's not even funny.
 

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I don't fuckin believe this shit. I had this EXACT opportunity about a year ago, but I messed it up by pussying out. I was 21, in Hawaii with my parents, was at the beach when my parents weren't home, two girls about the age you said. Holy fuck man, well you better not screw it up.
Great advice
 

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Go for it man. Last month I was on vacation with my cousin...holy moly. Chicks in their late 20's were flirting like crazy. We didn't even have to do much besides sitting there and chat like clueless robots. Too bad our hotel was pretty ****. My cousin was against the idea of bringing girls back to our hotel after dark. We ended up not scoring. But man, it could've been soooo easy. Older chicks love it if you're in shape and confident.

Hope you take care of business bro.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ever heard the expression "what happens in vegas, stays in vegas?" i'm sure it works the same way in hawaii. one word of advice for you.....close! they are looking to get crazy for a week or two and have fun, with no strings. then they go back to their boaring life. by the way when my dad was in the military back during nam, he was stationed in hawaii. he used to tell me stories about banging chicks on vacation all the time. he said it was like shooting fish in a barrell. i've got to take a trip to hawaii!
 

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thevilittletroll said:
ever heard the expression "what happens in vegas, stays in vegas?" i'm sure it works the same way in hawaii. one word of advice for you.....close! they are looking to get crazy for a week or two and have fun, with no strings. then they go back to their boaring life. by the way when my dad was in the military back during nam, he was stationed in hawaii. he used to tell me stories about banging chicks on vacation all the time. he said it was like shooting fish in a barrell. i've got to take a trip to hawaii!
My father got out by claiming a bad ear. His family wasn't even wealthy. He spent the decade of the 60' banging chicks he met at the beach while treating the rest of the world like s---. :confused:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0z6fcd--354&feature=related
Simply the COOLEST war tv series EVER! Man, this s--- got me so pumped in my younger days. I was so ready to empty my magazine on a bunch of poor sweaty village folks. HOOOOORAHHHHHHH!!!! Give me some love if you remember that THIS was the ORIGINAL opening!! These days I am forced to play COD (Hanoi map) while blasting this sick s---. Life is Good!
 

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Dude, she's gaming you as much as you are her haha! She's about to tag a guy 6 years younger than her while she's on vacation... NSA sex and she might be married for all you know. You think YOU'RE the one gaming HER?

But that being said, nice work. Just don't say anything stupid and you're golden at this point.
 

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Don't talk too much, keep things light, and UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES TRY TO DO ANYTHING "ROMANTIC"!! She wants a NSA experience, so the minute you start telling her how "special" she is to you, you will ruin the mood. It's a different game with women that much older than you.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Dude, she's gaming you as much as you are her haha! She's about to tag a guy 6 years younger than her while she's on vacation... NSA sex and she might be married for all you know. You think YOU'RE the one gaming HER?

But that being said, nice work. Just don't say anything stupid and you're golden at this point.
Haha yea I realized that I can't pull anything new with her, she probably has seen it all. Gotta just play it cool and find the right time to escalate/close.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As soon as the two of you are alone - like the second you walk through a doorway into a room where it's just the two of you is a good time to kiss her. Then just do your thang!
 
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