"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rex Man

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This is what you get when you tell the truth. After much harassment I finally told this chick the amount of sexual partners I've had; and she tweaked out. BTW, this is the second girl to do this THIS WEEK.

I know, I know, after the first girl tripped a shouldn't have told the other one, but hey, I'm stupid at times.

I don't know do you guys lie about sex partners? I try to keep it real and not lie but if the question arises with a diff. girl I might make like the other sex and take a few off my number. Anybody else have to deal with this B.S.

In the end, it's prolly my fault for telling the truth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I haven't been with that many, truthfully, so I don't lie about my past, but I have a no-lie philosophy anyway. I don't tolerate lying about anything, so I'm not going to lie to someone else either. This site has taught me a lot, but I can't stand the advice where people are telling others not to tell the truth.
 
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DJHoolahoop

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I simply say that it's private and that she shouldn't ask you that. If she persists, I usually say "That's for me to know and for you to wonder about."
 
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I've only slept with 4 girls, but all this year. I guess maybe two of them I'd be happy for people to know I slept with, the others are ok... just very bitter.
 
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Is it a high number or a low number?

I maintain a no "Kiss and Tell" policy.

Do you think Don Juan bragged and gossiped about his conquests?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you shouldnt have told her but now that she knows tell her to deal with it or walk..your past is your business
 
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Rex Man

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Dimallio, that my friend, is good advice that I shall employ tomm.

Kaptain-- I guess for my age (20) it's relatively high, but I wear protection and it's not like I'm a predator or something.

I'm gonna either A. not bring it up and see if she's still bothered by it or B. Confront the problem head on and not let it manifest.
 
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Well next time a lady (ha) ask you you can puff you your chest and say with complete confidence...

"What!?!?! I don't go asking how many guys YOU'VE ****ed!"

Keep the mystery...

I'd go with your plan A. Your sex life isn't something you should not have to justify or apologise for. k?
 
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If this question is arising in the beginning, then it`s none of her business.

If the question arises later, then you could play it off all ****y & funny to create/maintain mystery.

HB: "How many gf`s did you have?"

You: "I don`t know, there`s so many, the names are all a blur".


HB: "How many gf`s did you have?"

You: "It`s easier to count the ones I didn`t have".


Here`s one I tried as an experiment, about 3 months into seeing this one chica, but I don`t recommend it if the question is posed in the beginning of your qualification of the girl:

HB: "How many gf`s did you have?"

You: "None. You`re my first."

I had the slyest grin on when saying this and the chica burst out laughing and said, "Yeah right! There must`ve been dozens!"

I then said, "Gentlemen don`t kiss and tell". That chica never brought up the question again.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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