"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rex Man

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This is what you get when you tell the truth. After much harassment I finally told this chick the amount of sexual partners I've had; and she tweaked out. BTW, this is the second girl to do this THIS WEEK.

I know, I know, after the first girl tripped a shouldn't have told the other one, but hey, I'm stupid at times.

I don't know do you guys lie about sex partners? I try to keep it real and not lie but if the question arises with a diff. girl I might make like the other sex and take a few off my number. Anybody else have to deal with this B.S.

In the end, it's prolly my fault for telling the truth.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I haven't been with that many, truthfully, so I don't lie about my past, but I have a no-lie philosophy anyway. I don't tolerate lying about anything, so I'm not going to lie to someone else either. This site has taught me a lot, but I can't stand the advice where people are telling others not to tell the truth.
 
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I simply say that it's private and that she shouldn't ask you that. If she persists, I usually say "That's for me to know and for you to wonder about."
 
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I've only slept with 4 girls, but all this year. I guess maybe two of them I'd be happy for people to know I slept with, the others are ok... just very bitter.
 
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Is it a high number or a low number?

I maintain a no "Kiss and Tell" policy.

Do you think Don Juan bragged and gossiped about his conquests?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you shouldnt have told her but now that she knows tell her to deal with it or walk..your past is your business
 
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Dimallio, that my friend, is good advice that I shall employ tomm.

Kaptain-- I guess for my age (20) it's relatively high, but I wear protection and it's not like I'm a predator or something.

I'm gonna either A. not bring it up and see if she's still bothered by it or B. Confront the problem head on and not let it manifest.
 
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Well next time a lady (ha) ask you you can puff you your chest and say with complete confidence...

"What!?!?! I don't go asking how many guys YOU'VE ****ed!"

Keep the mystery...

I'd go with your plan A. Your sex life isn't something you should not have to justify or apologise for. k?
 
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If this question is arising in the beginning, then it`s none of her business.

If the question arises later, then you could play it off all ****y & funny to create/maintain mystery.

HB: "How many gf`s did you have?"

You: "I don`t know, there`s so many, the names are all a blur".


HB: "How many gf`s did you have?"

You: "It`s easier to count the ones I didn`t have".


Here`s one I tried as an experiment, about 3 months into seeing this one chica, but I don`t recommend it if the question is posed in the beginning of your qualification of the girl:

HB: "How many gf`s did you have?"

You: "None. You`re my first."

I had the slyest grin on when saying this and the chica burst out laughing and said, "Yeah right! There must`ve been dozens!"

I then said, "Gentlemen don`t kiss and tell". That chica never brought up the question again.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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