20yrs old virgin starting over. Need the Masters DJs

[moneyisking]

20 yrs old virgin starting over, need advices from masters
Thats right, sophomore in college, no pvssy ever acquired... quite fvcking sad. So, whatever I tried to do seems not to work. So what do I do now? Change the whole **** up and start totally over. In order to do that, I need advices from the best Master DJs.

See, I will quote this from WC2 "The best thing about the technique is that it has such a massive snowballing effect, that you make progress in no time."

My sh1t has not snowballed. I would love to see some real results, but like I said, I have tried numerous approaches, but I am still a fvcking 20yr old VIRGIN. So now I am asking YOU Master DJs to please guide me in this new fresh start. One thing I regret about seduction is that I set off at wrong footstep. I started with David Deangelo's money grabbing bull sh1t, so you figure. All you successful Master DJs, tell me your step by step reformation that YOU took, those techniques that snowballed to make you what you are to get hoes. I am not going to take your words granted, I will pay you back with my most precious gift: my success. Thank you!

 

[Masked_angel]

How is your life in other perspectives doing?

Do you want step by step?

Life -> Happiness -> love

By the way, its nothing wrong to be a virgin stop trying to seek approval by trying to lose it.

In other words, change your lifestyle, eat healthy, follow your dreams, be happy, work out, be social, educate yourself and you will see girls will start to check you out.

 

[sageproduct]

Exactly as above, worry about women a little less. Focus on your goals in life. Those are the most important things. When you put yourself first, women will be attracted by that quality. You have to build your confidence through passion.

Also just wondering, what was in David Deangelo's book that wasn't in the DJ bible?

 

[moneyisking]

How is your life in other perspectives doing?

Do you want step by step?

Life -> Happiness -> love

By the way, its nothing wrong to be a virgin stop trying to seek approval by trying to lose it.

In other words, change your lifestyle, eat healthy, follow your dreams, be happy, work out, be social, educate yourself and you will see girls will start to check you out.

I am pretty well rounded guy when it comes to social network. I workout a lot, keep clean hygiene, study and keep good grades, have a lot of friends, go to parties and every dudes think I am cool as sh!t. I can say I got many things taken care of except one thing that I want to conquer, and that is getting the girl that I want. I don't want to feel nervous in front of HB, I WANT to make girls crazy and spit the game and make them all want me. I want it. But yeah, I am not bragging about myself, but I am not total AFC pathetic chump. If you saw me and talked to me, I am the kind of guy you will like, but I just can't get the ladies man.

 

[dj_china]

I am pretty well rounded guy when it comes to social network. I workout a lot, keep clean hygiene, study and keep good grades, have a lot of friends, go to parties and every dudes think I am cool as sh!t. I can say I got many things taken care of except one thing that I want to conquer, and that is getting the girl that I want. I don't want to feel nervous in front of HB, I WANT to make girls crazy and spit the game and make them all want me. I want it. But yeah, I am not bragging about myself, but I am not total AFC pathetic chump. If you saw me and talked to me, I am the kind of guy you will like, but I just can't get the ladies man.

I personally don't think there is a very large distinction between the kind of guy guys like to make friends with and the kind of guy girls like to make friends with.

So it looks like you just need to step up that friendship with females to include something more physical. So you probably need to work on escalation, kino, etc. and probably just make more approaches. you probably have a lot more male friends than female friends, even if you count those LJBF females, right?

 

[playerone]

Alright, since you want to start afresh with your life, the first thing you can do is to change your mindset about it. Right now you're saying your life is sad because you're 20 yrs old and haven't had sex. Stop thinking that being successful with women means you are doing great with your life. That's not true.

The focus is not on women. If you're having fun talking to different women, going out with them, having sex, it's great. But that's just to entertain yourself. You don't depend on them for what you want to do in life. If you find a woman you truly like, it's wonderful. But that's only a supplement to your life.

The focus is on how you're going to have fun, irregardless of the presence of women. Learn to have fun yourself. Only do things that you like to do. Go out with friends, have fun with them. That's the priority. Fun's the priority. Fun means doing anything that makes you feel good and happy. Feel like a kid again. After you learn to have fun, you meet women. Do the same thing, have fun with them. Enjoy having fun.

It's only when you're genuinely having fun with your life, then you can do the same with women.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

START APPROACHING. Thats the only way you will ever get good at this.
And by approaching i mean like 20-30 sets a night. Burning the whole place up.

Stop masturbating with deep inner sh1t. Just keep approaching till all your mistakes auto-correct.

Uh and i almost forgot. Don't do it for the sake of result or your setting yourself up to fail badly. Do it for the journey. Do it for the progress.

 

[prairiedog24]

AND... I understand the desire to see sex as a benchmark, everyone wants it. But I think it's a mistake to make it a goal. Even if it's what you want, make self-improvement your goal, and when sex happens it'll just be icing on the cake.

There are a few of us *cough*cough* who are old school enough to be doing the wait-until-marriage thing. However... think about it; every emotional, attraction, social, and self-improvement step you take should be valuable in and of itself, not just as a cheap parlor trick to get sex. I don't have sex as my goal since I'm currently sticking to my principles, but since implementing some of these self-improvement goals, I've had very attractive girls openly ask me to stay over. Even without the end result, that def is a confidence boost.

So yeah my point is: switch your goal, work hard, and stick to it and watch what happens.

 

[moneyisking]

START APPROACHING. Thats the only way you will ever get good at this.
And by approaching i mean like 20-30 sets a night. Burning the whole place up.

Stop masturbating with deep inner sh1t. Just keep approaching till all your mistakes auto-correct.

Uh and i almost forgot. Don't do it for the sake of result or your setting yourself up to fail badly. Do it for the journey. Do it for the progress.

you guys are absolutely right. I am so stressed about the fact that I am not getting any girls. It's easier to say I will forget about the whole scheme, but it's definite necessary to switch my goal and mindset.

I always stress myself with goals about women and I feel like sh!t if the convo doesn't go as I intended. I will just forget about all the game mentality and just start approaching and learn little by little. Thanks for the posts!

 

[Dante420]

You already got 20 years of waiting under your belt so I would say the first move of yours should be bettering yourself. Through diet and fitness and monetary means.

 

[Alle_Gory]

20 yrs old virgin starting over, need advices from masters
Thats right, sophomore in college, no pvssy ever acquired... quite fvcking sad. So, whatever I tried to do seems not to work. So what do I do now? Change the whole **** up and start totally over. In order to do that, I need advices from the best Master DJs.

See, I will quote this from WC2 "The best thing about the technique is that it has such a massive snowballing effect, that you make progress in no time."

My sh1t has not snowballed. I would love to see some real results, but like I said, I have tried numerous approaches, but I am still a fvcking 20yr old VIRGIN. So now I am asking YOU Master DJs to please guide me in this new fresh start. One thing I regret about seduction is that I set off at wrong footstep. I started with David Deangelo's money grabbing bull sh1t, so you figure. All you successful Master DJs, tell me your step by step reformation that YOU took, those techniques that snowballed to make you what you are to get hoes. I am not going to take your words granted, I will pay you back with my most precious gift: my success. Thank you!

Haha. So did I. Never paid for that sh*t though.


Best advice I can tell you is chill out and don't take yourself so seriously. Be comfortable in your own skin and you will put others at ease too.

 

[f283000]

The best thing you can do which helped me is to look for a sarge buddy on the net and start sargin in college campuses. Go to every pua forum you can find, post threads advertising you are looking for a sarge buddy in your town and meet with him and start sarging ASAP!

I personally couldn't approach for the life of me or talk to girls and starting to sarge changed my life. I already had the knowledge and theory from all the reading I had done into the subject and I all i had to do was to start talking to lots of women. I just couldn't sarge my myself I didn't have the guts but having a sarge buddy there gave me confidence to go into the battlefield and take care of business. Once you start doing it you will lose the fear of it.

Trust me if you do this once a week you will get good and you will start getting numbers. Next thing you know you will find yourself getting 2 or 3 numbers a sarge and going on dates with girls and meeting new people.

 

[1337]

yo money you've given out great advice before and I'll return it to you. If your not happy right now with out a girl you will never be happy when you get one. Happiness comes from within and girls are attracted to guys that are distracted by their own sense of strong reality and happiness. Techniques from pick up artists will just build a shell around you, meaning you only reeled the girls in with technique as in you seduced, brainwashed them sorta. They fell for the techniques not you. Also your gonna keep coming back for more technique and relying on them. Its the same concept of giving a hungry guy fish and teaching him how to fish. This is where inner game comes in. Inner game is being your best self, having a strong sense of reality , having core confidence not thinking about outcomes or results with women, not caring what anyone thinks to a common sense extent. My advice is to stop focusing on girls it only lowers your value if your chasing after something. I got most of this from watching RSD blueprint decoded. I suggest you look into it. If it makes you feel better I'm a 19 year old virgin and im satisfied with my position only reason why I don't approach is my fear of losing my freedom and my satisfaction being compromised once i get into a relationship. For now focus on getting fit,hobbies etc and overall just being happy with yourself. Society including media has made it a shame to be a virgin when your in college. tsk tsk only in america. Just stay strong,be happy and dont seek validation or approval of your identity from women and society.

 

[moneyisking]

yo money you've given out great advice before and I'll return it to you. If your not happy right now with out a girl you will never be happy when you get one. Happiness comes from within and girls are attracted to guys that are distracted by their own sense of strong reality and happiness. Techniques from pick up artists will just build a shell around you, meaning you only reeled the girls in with technique as in you seduced, brainwashed them sorta. They fell for the techniques not you. Also your gonna keep coming back for more technique and relying on them. Its the same concept of giving a hungry guy fish and teaching him how to fish. This is where inner game comes in. Inner game is being your best self, having a strong sense of reality , having core confidence not thinking about outcomes or results with women, not caring what anyone thinks to a common sense extent. My advice is to stop focusing on girls it only lowers your value if your chasing after something. I got most of this from watching RSD blueprint decoded. I suggest you look into it. If it makes you feel better I'm a 19 year old virgin and im satisfied with my position only reason why I don't approach is my fear of losing my freedom and my satisfaction being compromised once i get into a relationship. For now focus on getting fit,hobbies etc and overall just being happy with yourself. Society including media has made it a shame to be a virgin when your in college. tsk tsk only in america. Just stay strong,be happy and dont seek validation or approval of your identity from women and society.

Haha, great advice, I keep it in mind. Ya, I don't think I will be getting a girl in a while, so why not just forget about women for a while and focus on me. Thank you.