"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

2021 resolution - Drop all of my current plates...

Thread starter Lookatu
Start date Dec 22, 2020

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

Master Don Juan

Jan 4, 2021

The plates spin themselves, let them spin, the less caring you are, the harder the spin, you don't need to hold onto any plates, those plates need to hold onto you.

I admire your game, complacency is a mofo. I'm basically in the same boat, I've had minimal action during lockdown here but luckily it ends tomorrow, gonna approach every broad I see, preferably outside.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.