"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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2009 Guys!

It's-Me

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It's a entire new year guys!

What are your expectations and dreams for 2009? What are you going to do different in 2009?

Personally, I want to meet TONS of girls, EVERYWHERE. I only started pulling girls recently - I got 3 numbers and 2 make outs in less than a month. I want to gain muscle mass and take fighting lessons. I want to make more friends and meet new people. I want to get a summer job. I want to improve my grades in school - even though I'm very intelligent, I don't always apply myself. I'm ready to stop being lazy.

In 2009, I'm going to become a man! I'm going to pull girls left, right and center. I'm going to stop giving a damn what people think of me.

High School should be the best years of our lives guys. Well it's about time we do something about it.

Most importantly, I understood that however you are now, it's your fault. If your not getting girls, it's because your not getting out there and trying to meet them. ONLY YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!

Best of luck to all you guys!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jeffthechef

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haha since no one else is posting on this thread

WOOO HOOO A NEW YEAR...TIME TO MAKE MORE RESOLUTIONS I FORGET TO REMEMBER...THERE'S A GREATER CHANCE OF THAT THE PAPER I WRITE MY RESOLUTIONS ON WILL DETERIORATE BEFORE MY RESOLUTIONS ARE FULFILLED..but anyways

here's my ss resolutions
1. get everything especially ass but not the big hole (vagina, since i consider only penetrating that part to be considered real sex, i want to remain a semi virgin by the time i'm married..but either than that i want to stick my thing in many holes)

2. get more experience with picking up girls rather than keeping em since i usually have no problems mainting ltr's

3. ask the girl on the top of my list out somewhere....for some reason i believe that if i can do this...getting other girls will be much easier...i know it's not oneitis..but it's like oneitis in the quarantine zone...if i can annihilate it completely everythign else will be so much easier

4. Help new dj's become alphas

Happy new year fellow alphas and soon to be alphas:cheer:
 

Smellsfishy

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1. Doing really well in my exams so i can get into the course i want at uni. (Probably Medicine + Surgery so i needa work really hard)
2. Shaking off my social anxiety, shyness, and afcness. Just be way more social, friendly and easy to approach.
4. Continue working at the gym to get big and strong =) (SCRAWNY 75kg :<)
5. Improve in football (soccer) and play it more.
6. Dress better.
 

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I made a really good new years resolution last night but i cant even remember it I was so fvcking hammered lol.
 

Five To One

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fvck as many dumb b1itches as possible
and to not say I love you to a single girl

cheers to a new years
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dedication

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It's-Me said:
It's a entire new year guys!

What are your expectations and dreams for 2009? What are you going to do different in 2009?
A happy new improvement year!

I am going to work on my story telling, i want to become the value giver. People will be dieing to meet me ;)

It's-Me said:
High School should be the best years of our lives guys. Well it's about time we do something about it.
Because some random guy said so and everybody quotes it? I stopped counting my years and began living in the moment. It works!

It's-Me said:
Best of luck to all you guys!
Thanks but the luck is already in me i don't need it from external sources you moron! (Ofcourse i'm playing a little dumb here ;P)
 

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Happy new year. Still recovering from insane amounts of alcohol. We completely trashed someone's house. We had built a bar with two beer taps. We also built a DJ booth and bought four huge speakers for $20 which we hooked up to a big amplifier that I brought along. Two of the speakers didn't make it till the end. It was the most insane new years party I had ever attended. There were no girls though, only girlfriends of my buddies. It was my group of best friends, we were with 15 people or so total. We had 11 small beer kegs, each good for a gallon, plus various bottles of champagne and strong booze. I mostly drank beer and champagne though, I had a bad experience with liqour abuse last year. I think I almost killed myself back then. We all still got properly hammered though, because I didn't knew what I was doing anymore around 2am.

At one point someone (the owner of the house) threw a table out of the window into the street (2nd floor) rockstar style. One other guy accidently made a dent in the wall because he ran into it head-first. I fell asleep on a couch with a beer in my hand and a cigar in my mouth. The next morning I still had the beer in my hand. When I woke up it looked like a bomb had been exploded. Cigarette buds everywhere in glasses, french fries and other random sh*t all over the place, people sleeping on the floor and on couches (one guy had vomited over himself in his sleep)... it was insane. The next day I drove home at noon, but I acutally was still drunk. It's now 3am, 2-1-2009 here and my head is still spinning.

It was awesome.


Happy new years all!
 

eaglez1177

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snowdog said:
Happy new year. Still recovering from insane amounts of alcohol. We completely trashed someone's house. We had built a bar with two beer taps. We also built a DJ booth and bought four huge speakers for $20 which we hooked up to a big amplifier that I brought along. Two of the speakers didn't make it till the end. It was the most insane new years party I had ever attended. There were no girls though, only girlfriends of my buddies. It was my group of best friends, we were with 15 people or so total. We had 11 small beer kegs, each good for a gallon, plus various bottles of champagne and strong booze. I mostly drank beer and champagne though, I had a bad experience with liqour abuse last year. I think I almost killed myself back then. We all still got properly hammered though, because I didn't knew what I was doing anymore around 2am.

At one point someone (the owner of the house) threw a table out of the window into the street (2nd floor) rockstar style. One other guy accidently made a dent in the wall because he ran into it head-first. I fell asleep on a couch with a beer in my hand and a cigar in my mouth. The next morning I still had the beer in my hand. When I woke up it looked like a bomb had been exploded. Cigarette buds everywhere in glasses, french fries and other random sh*t all over the place, people sleeping on the floor and on couches (one guy had vomited over himself in his sleep)... it was insane. The next day I drove home at noon, but I acutally was still drunk. It's now 3am, 2-1-2009 here and my head is still spinning.

It was awesome.


Happy new years all!
Hahahaha damnn that sounds like one hell of a party! The party I was at wasnt as hardcore as yours, but lets just say that we had four handles, four 30 packs of beer, and two 12 packs of some purple haze beer between me, my 7 best friends, and 9 other girls (and the girls left at like 1 am while the rest of the guys all slept over). So yea we had A LOT to drink lol. We shouldve waked and baked this morning but decided not to idk why, so now i still feel like **** from the horrible hangover.

EDIT: oh and one of my friends got head from this girl in like the corner of the room lol. Like we were just in the basement and there were no other rooms so they just did it right there in the corner lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1. Gain 20lbs of muscle before attending college
2.save up for an awesome present for my fathers b-day
3. apply myself even more to my studies
4.Participate more in school clubs
5. Go on more dates
5.get rid of my social anxiety/shyness
6.become a natural dj
7.go on a road trip
8.learn to cook
9.kiss close
10. learn more about my favorite teachers
 

Eugene123

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1. Read a book....
2. Become a master of any social situation
3. Speak with better grammar/vocabulary
4. Help others out
5. Find out who is jacking my clothes
 
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