"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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20 going after a 28 (soon to be 29?)

crazykid returns

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Like the title says...I'm 20 and just found out this female I'm going after is 28. She doesn't look anything over 22 though. I joked on her about it for a little while and she still is showing interest. I"m just wondering, is there anything different about going after "mature" females as opposed to those 19, 20ish?

If it helps any, she is "into church and likes helping kids." Kind of a turnoff at this point about that.

Any ideas/advice is welcomed.

PS - Before telling me to get the hell out of this forum, just remember....You guys go after girls my age, so I figure, might as well have some fair play. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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crowes22

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Get it, when I was 21, around there I think, can't remember exactly, but it was 20-23, I got w/ a chick that was 29, pharm. sales rep, w/ her own sweet pad. Great sex. Best I ever had. Lick your balls, followed by a BJ, and then a great fvck. Shower at her pad in the AM. She WAS REALLY cool.

I just wasn't ready for what she was (ie: age difference/marraige).

Go get it. Good luck. And nah man, stay at this forum!

We need ya, bro!
 

Junior Sanz

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she has a bf? and she is going out with you? Shes a sneak! i dont trust her already!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sky

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Never date a girl who cheats. Why? 'Cause you'll always wonder if she's going to do it to you. If you're just sexing her and aren't going to take it any further,...knock it out bro.
 

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You're not her father, you're not her priest; sure date and f?ck her. You'll have great fun.
 

Jaun_Don

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I am 32 and have a date with an 18 year old tonight do I feel bad?, nope cos we have a good rapport and like to laugh together I haven't tried anything on and she doesn't act 18 I can tell you that much.
 

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They're all into church until you prove otherwise.

And Jaun_Don, make sure she shows you some i.d.
 
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