"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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20 going after a 28 (soon to be 29?)

crazykid returns

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Like the title says...I'm 20 and just found out this female I'm going after is 28. She doesn't look anything over 22 though. I joked on her about it for a little while and she still is showing interest. I"m just wondering, is there anything different about going after "mature" females as opposed to those 19, 20ish?

If it helps any, she is "into church and likes helping kids." Kind of a turnoff at this point about that.

Any ideas/advice is welcomed.

PS - Before telling me to get the hell out of this forum, just remember....You guys go after girls my age, so I figure, might as well have some fair play. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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crowes22

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Get it, when I was 21, around there I think, can't remember exactly, but it was 20-23, I got w/ a chick that was 29, pharm. sales rep, w/ her own sweet pad. Great sex. Best I ever had. Lick your balls, followed by a BJ, and then a great fvck. Shower at her pad in the AM. She WAS REALLY cool.

I just wasn't ready for what she was (ie: age difference/marraige).

Go get it. Good luck. And nah man, stay at this forum!

We need ya, bro!
 

Junior Sanz

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she has a bf? and she is going out with you? Shes a sneak! i dont trust her already!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sky

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Never date a girl who cheats. Why? 'Cause you'll always wonder if she's going to do it to you. If you're just sexing her and aren't going to take it any further,...knock it out bro.
 

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You're not her father, you're not her priest; sure date and f?ck her. You'll have great fun.
 

Jaun_Don

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I am 32 and have a date with an 18 year old tonight do I feel bad?, nope cos we have a good rapport and like to laugh together I haven't tried anything on and she doesn't act 18 I can tell you that much.
 

josekortez

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They're all into church until you prove otherwise.

And Jaun_Don, make sure she shows you some i.d.
 
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