"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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20 and Just got my license

cablecow15

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Ok so here is the situation..

grew up with little to no money so had to by my own car and insurance before I could get my license. well now i have a job and im driving around , I have 3 days off this Friday - Sunday , and I wanna make good use of my new freedom, still new to the area so not really any friends , or familiar with any clubs and if i was not sure id wanna go alone.

Ive been here a hile , but off and on , ive always given my self the excuse " well you cant drive so even if you get here number you cant meet here " now thats gone and im going to try to focus on bettering myself physically and don juanically , going to stare re reading the bible again .. will kinda use this as a journal too , but reall could youse some advice on where to aim my woman searchlight lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Think of something fun for yourself where there might happen to also be women. If you make your own good time your top priority, women will come to you a lot easier. You could of course just snag a practice date off the internet, but the best place to take any date is somewhere you were going already for your own enjoyment.

"Fun" is the number one trait that women say they want in a guy, but what I think that really means is that the guy seeks fun for himself, and she just follows him.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Think of something fun for yourself where there might happen to also be women. If you make your own good time your top priority, women will come to you a lot easier. You could of course just snag a practice date off the internet, but the best place to take any date is somewhere you were going already for your own enjoyment.

"Fun" is the number one trait that women say they want in a guy, but what I think that really means is that the guy seeks fun for himself, and she just follows him.
I like this , i just always feel like when im alone doing these things that they are going to think there's some reason why nobody else is hanging out with me lol
theres just a part of my head that tells me its creepy if i walk up to a group of girls , i know thats rarely if any the case , but its something i have in my heads

i was at the park n the only girls i saw today were two fattys , and i thought well might as well say hi , i say hi and they both look at me and keep walking , just ignore me , idk if they were intimidated by my looks or what theres no way in hell they could view me under them in looks but you never know with some people

going to park tomorrow ,, will return with results
 
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