"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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20 -> 25 -> 16?!

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I'm 20 years old and I've been dating this 25 year old chick. Really cool and quite hot aswell. It's easy to DJ her since she's not as shy as a small teenager. I've gone on one date with her which went well and yesterday we we're texting some crap back and forth, I said to her to take a picture of herself and send it to me and that she was probably the sexiest chick in the bar and later that she'd take a picture of her left nipple and send it. Booyaa it ****ing worked xD (No I don't give compliments all the time, probably my first compliment I've given her).
Bla bla bla whatever.

NOW my brothers gf who is 17 is going to hook me up with her 16yo friend (it's legal here :crazy: and I want to **** the brains out of her little petite ass :moon: ) So should I go at it differently. Not as straight forward? She's probably NOT a virgin.
So has anyone games a 16 yo and was it different from gaming a girl of your age+?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ugh the younger ones are usually spring chicken young naive and love older guys thier easier than your age range.don't be suprised if at one point you feel like your babysitting.
 

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San Jose California said:
Wow....

20...... 16........


that's really ****ed up.
disagree. not saying i'd do it but 16 to 20 isnt that big of a difference in today's society.
 

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San Jose California said:
but why not reject the 16 year old then go for a girl your age?
he could go both?

do you live in california man? what are the women like? it's like the home of porn hey? i'm in australia and have been thinking about california a lot for some reason lately..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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