"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need some advice.


There is this girl who has lately shown quite an interest in me. I hear from people she likes me, she wants to hang out a bunch etc. she invited me to this big trip with some friends and we held hands etc and she basically proved to me tht she did like me. After this she wanted to hang out again and with the holidays it got hard to hang out just us2 but recently she has been kind of ignoring me and avoiding hanging out. I asked her why the hot/cold behavior and she said that an old boy she was interested in asked her to go out again.. she said she was really upset and i assumed that meant she was still really unsure about what to do. She had liked this guy quite a bit and so i assumed she was upset at this because she was starting to like me.



anyways i don't think this is a done deal yet and i'm really frustrated that this guy had to come crawling back in right as things were getting moving.she seems to be shutting me out trying to forget that she liked me at all. I could use some advice to help show her that i would be a much better person to be involved with than this other guy.

any advice would be appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are plenty of girls to go around.

Living well is the best revenge
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Go find yourself other girl/s. If this other guys is what you say and she finishes it with him you will be a shining star and
YOU can decide wheather she is worth it.
 
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They told me I was stupid to go after a guy who was not worth it.....but I say...don't give up without a fight..sometimes the most persuasive wins. As long as she didn' reject u...go on....if u want to be with her...if u really want it...then try! why not? what do u have to loose?
 
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